The Gay Thread

[hellfire1]

Originally Posted by missmacabre

I'm young and have had my experimental time. Either way was enjoyable but personally I like guys better. Biologically I can see why either sex would say "Hey, I like having a strong man to protect me, but ladies are all soft and curvy and emotionally understanding." That said, sexuality to me is all about love. I am in love with a man and I love how having his arms around me makes me feel protected. I know I'll be with him for the rest of my life, so when we started getting serious I chose right then to be straight. I just have no need for a lesbian relationship.

Understandable. But to me, it isn't that you "chose" to be straight... you just chose to be in a committed relationship. And the person you chose to be with just happens to be a man. And for me, personally, if you've had relationships/experiences with both genders, that makes you bi. Or at least bi-curious.

[bwind22]

Originally Posted by NiKKiE

I've been a member since 03 i didnt just show up stupid.

I don't give a shit how long you've been a member. You just showed up in this thread. Douchebag.

I'm not gonna waaste my time on you. You'll be banned before the end of the day.

[bwind22]

Originally Posted by hellfire1

Bwind, since you believe sexuality is a choice, do you believe you also chose to be heterosexual at some point in your life?

Simple curiosity...

Fair question. I believe procreation of the species is the natural instinct of any animal so we're all born hetero by default. At some point, certain people decide to be homosexual. *shrug* That's cool.

[missmacabre]

Originally Posted by hellfire1

Understandable. But to me, it isn't that you "chose" to be straight... you just chose to be in a committed relationship. And the person you chose to be with just happens to be a man. And for me, personally, if you've had relationships/experiences with both genders, that makes you bi. Or at least bi-curious.

I can understand why you would think that I'm bi, and I have had to explain this to my friend once too. Bi-curious maybe, definitely even. Not Bi anymore though, cause when I was experimenting I was attracted to girls and guys. Now I can look at a guy and still find him sexually attractive but when I see a hot girl all I think is that she's pretty. Or oh, I like her blouse. Whatever... just no feelings for women you know?

I wish I was better at explaining what I think and putting things into words.

[Freak]

I dont have a problem with gay people.If you wanna be gay that's fine.What I do have a problem with is the one's that go running down the stree announce it to the world.The ones who talk in those really feminine voices and say things like "Oh my gosh." or who walk and sit like a woman.

[ferretchucker]

True. I think sexuality is yours and so you shouldn't force it onto people. It's like "You're gay. We get it! Stop trying to prove it to us...WE BELIEVE YOU!"

[urgeok2]

Originally Posted by NiKKiE

I've been a member since 03 i didnt just show up stupid.

you definately showed up stupid..


its not like you had a choice to show up any other way

[Despare]

Originally Posted by ferretchucker

True. I think sexuality is yours and so you shouldn't force it onto people. It's like "You're gay. We get it! Stop trying to prove it to us...WE BELIEVE YOU!"

The thing that makes me angriest about that is when schools let their students demonstrate or have a "gay pride day". It's a sexual preference and has no place in schools.

[ferretchucker]

I think when gays do that they're hurting their cause by perpetuating the idea they're different to straight people. Why not just leave it at we're all humans?

[newb]

Originally Posted by urgeok2

you definately showed up stupid..


its not like you had a choice to show up any other way

LOL........classic:D