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I'm old and cynical, been through the major depression thing and recently finally got out of a 12 year long unhealthy relationship. Hate to tell you, but this is not the last time you'll get your heart broken. It happens to both women and men.
Learn from your mistakes but DON'T let him get away with blaming you for the breakup if he tries to do that. Hanging out with your friends is a definate good thing to do. Take care of yourself, force yourself to if necessary. If you feel shitty physically, it will only compound the depression. It will get better! Get a dog or cat if you don't already have one (personally I would recommend a small white fuzzy dog, but that's just me). And keep talking to people. I became a bit of a recluse for a while, and even though somethimes you may need to do that for a while, don't do it for too long or it adds to the problem (the depression). Take care and feel free to PM me if ya want.
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You will feel like you are dying and then in about 6 months to a year you will be ok, but scarred. Do us all a favor and do not take it out on the next guy and do not let it change the good in you. Most importantly, Do Not Take Revenge. I have found that if you allow yourself to grieve and turn negative thoughts about the person into energy toward a goal that interests you...it makes the whole 'what goes around comes around' theory kick into action. Trust me sweetie, he WILL go through something like this in his lifetime and WILL think about the people he did this to and if he isn't a sociopath, he WILL feel remorse. There is no relief from this pain except thru time and I KNOW how that sounds. Take really good care of yourself,be kind to YOU, you have just broken something valuable.
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i think the bottom line is - if you are completely unable to find happiness ever ... see a doctor. you have a chemical problem in your brain that the right medication can fix.
you only get one life - why waste it being unhappy - got a problem ? fix it. get back on track as soon as possible. we only live a short time - get the most out of it.
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Set lots of small goals and get them done. The joy of accomplishment improves self esteem and focus. As the small goals get completed, you'll gradually start feeling better about your own capabilities and appealing qualities as a person. Games help with this, so does poetry.
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True enough. I don't know if she has a harem as big as yours though. I just got my eleventh fetish girl and the schoolgirls in small groups are known to fight with the bondage nuns to avenge years of knuckle rappings. Lots of hair pulling, vinyl and holy water everywhere.
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