Mean guys finish first?

[Dante'sInferno]

I also am attracted to older women by default.Never really been attracted to younger women.Well just a few.Older women usually know what they want,are smarter, e.c.t.Also i'm easily manipulated.Haha.Hooray for the bad girls/loners!



@Chronogirl,thanks.I thought it was the greatest thing ever went i saw it.

[_____V_____]

It's so easy to see how so many negative attributes can be mis-interpreted as confidence.

Heck there would be a new possible argument thrown out in the future - I killed him because I was confident enough that I could kill him!

...?

[ChronoGrl]

Originally Posted by urgeok2

heh - i never whined about it - i was never attracted to the kind of girl that was stupid enough to want the bad boy anyway ... i find intelligence sexy .. not self destruction. if i want to watch that i'll put in a french film.


self confidence in a woman is very sexy also - sadly you dont often see it until a woman is older. (which is why i always dug older women)

on the other hand arrogance and sociopathic behavior - often mistaken for self confidence - is human nature at it's ugliest ... in either sex.

Guys LOVE their women BAD. Just ask Dexter Holland:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=iEvozNlL8V0

*giggles*

BOY that song brings me back to high school.

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Not all of them.

[hellfire1]

Originally Posted by _____V_____

Not all of them.

Exactly. Just like not all women like bad boys.

[massacre man]

Originally Posted by ChronoGrl

Guys LOVE their women BAD.

I don't... I like that song though.

[horrorobsessed]

Originally Posted by urgeok2

self confidence in a woman is very sexy also - sadly you dont often see it until a woman is older. (which is why i always dug older women)

it's kind of hard for a woman (or young woman i guess) to be confident isn't it? there's society all around us telling us that we need to be a certain way. if a woman isn't how most are portrayed in magazines and such their shunned...or just don't have really good selfesteem. and most of the time guys are intimidated by smart woman...at least the ones that aren't smart themselves.

and isn't there a kind of double standard here? it's okay for a younger guy to date and older girl and even an older guy to date a younger girl. but it's considered perposterous if an older girl dates a younger guy. anyone else notice this? it's sad in most cases, but i guess the years of listening to my stepdad bitch about it have gotten to me. personally, i think his opinion isn't worth shit, but his views on life still piss me off to no end.

[_____V_____]

Originally Posted by horrorobsessed

it's kind of hard for a woman (or young woman i guess) to be confident isn't it? there's society all around us telling us that we need to be a certain way. if a woman isn't how most are portrayed in magazines and such their shunned...or just don't have really good selfesteem. and most of the time guys are intimidated by smart woman...at least the ones that aren't smart themselves.

and isn't there a kind of double standard here? it's okay for a younger guy to date and older girl and even an older guy to date a younger girl. but it's considered perposterous if an older girl dates a younger guy. anyone else notice this? it's sad in most cases, but i guess the years of listening to my stepdad bitch about it have gotten to me. personally, i think his opinion isn't worth shit, but his views on life still piss me off to no end.

I say true confidence comes from being your own self, what you are. And its true, that societal standards dont always permit a person to be themselves (hence the need of donning a "mask" at least half-a-day), but I have noticed a very uncommon fact - people who are themselves are the most satisfied and contended ones in life. ALL others are always on the lookout of more...some more...money, power, relationships, women (in case of men) etc.

And about double standards - surely it was a thing of the past. With women lib getting strong claims from all over the world, and the decrease in the say of the Church and dominant males in our society, I think any sort of relationship (as long as its a healthy one) is generally acceptable. Lately we have grown to accept lesbians and gays, haven't we? I think most people have become very liberal and broad-minded in that particular aspect.

[Jack_Torrence_Kills]

haha yes. nothing turns me on more than a woman who is who she is

[massacre man]

Originally Posted by horrorobsessed

if a woman isn't how most are portrayed in magazines and such their shunned

If they want you to be something you're not, why would you care what they think?