Mean guys finish first?

[hellfire1]

I do know many who like the "bad boy" type. It's all about the challenge for those girls: that they may be able to change, or that the bad boy will be willing to change for them. With those girls you'll get the same typical refrain, "You really don't know him, he's so sweet when it's just the two of us." Blech!

But not all chicks are like that. I've been with the bf for over 5 years, and he's the typical nice guy. And no, I wasn't all "used up" before we got together. :p

[urgeok2]

Originally Posted by hellfire1

With those girls you'll get the same typical refrain, "You really don't know him, he's so sweet when it's just the two of us." Blech!

when he's not drunk and beating the shit out of me ...

you know .. the 3 or 4 times a month when he's actually home.

[Freak]

Originally Posted by urgeok2

when he's not drunk and beating the shit out of me ...

you know .. the 3 or 4 times a month when he's actually home.

Well said urge.


What really annoys me the most is that alot of girls complain about there boyfriend.they say "I hate my boyfriend he treats me like shit."
Then you ask then why do you stay with them?

And its always the same answer "Becasue I love him."

Then stop fucking complaining.

[missmacabre]

Freak, those girls either don't know what love is, or they are in an abusive realtionship. If it's the latter, they're only gonna be able to realize it themselves. The more you tell them, the more "in love" they'll become because they think you're picking on their bf and want to protect him more.

[crabapple]

What they fail to mention is that the "nice guys" often hang out with the "bad girls."

[Dante'sInferno]

Originally Posted by crabapple

What they fail to mention is that the "nice guys" often hang out with the "bad girls."

.................:D

[ChronoGrl]

Originally Posted by Roderick Usher

What the chicks dig is confidence - and typically the assholes of the world are supremely confident.

But this study is bullshit. I got laid A LOT in my twenties - which was when I finally figured this out (still do get laid a lot, but now it's with the same woman) and I've never been mean spirited or even remotely decietful, simply confident (maybe a bit cocky or arrogant, but never mean).

Meek guys are typically nice, but the ladies don't want to fuck the meek guy - it isn't because he's nice, it's because he isn't bold enough. But you can be bold without being cruel... and it works EVERYTIME:D

I agree with you on this one, here.

It's confidence that's sexy. Honestly. I can't stand meekness or self consciousness that overwhelms a personality. AND I can't STAND whiny guys who complain, "Bad guys always win..."

GROW SOME BALLS AND GET OVER IT YOU PUSSY

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Unfortunately, sometimes confidence borderlines douchiness... Luckily I have a man who's confident and a sweetie pie.

[ChronoGrl]

Originally Posted by Dante'sInferno

.................:D

By the way... Nice sig addition... I am oddly drawn to it... kitty rhythmic bopping...



Look at that little guy. He's just so happy...

[urgeok2]

Originally Posted by ChronoGrl

It's confidence that's sexy. Honestly. I can't stand meekness or self consciousness that overwhelms a personality. AND I can't STAND whiny guys who complain, "Bad guys always win..."

GROW SOME BALLS AND GET OVER IT YOU PUSSY

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heh - i never whined about it - i was never attracted to the kind of girl that was stupid enough to want the bad boy anyway ... i find intelligence sexy .. not self destruction. if i want to watch that i'll put in a french film.


self confidence in a woman is very sexy also - sadly you dont often see it until a woman is older. (which is why i always dug older women)

on the other hand arrogance and sociopathic behavior - often mistaken for self confidence - is human nature at it's ugliest ... in either sex.

[massacre man]

Originally Posted by urgeok2

self confidence in a woman is very sexy also - sadly you dont often see it until a woman is older. (which is why i always dug older women)

That is true. Very true. Very, very true. Very, very, very true.