Cheating?

[urgeok]

Originally posted by The STE
yeah, sucks, don't it? The Ring movies have an erie parallel to this kind of stuff happening.

The Ring: I mention that I'm going to see the Ring, and JUST before I ask if this girl I like wants to go, she mentions that she's going with her b/f (didn't know she had one) to homecoming

The Ring 2: Shot down right after we left.


There's a sign somewhere in there...

you're going to save money on a ring.. (well, with them anyway)

[Babygurl20]

Originally posted by urgeok
another saving grace is that i'm REALLY fucking fussy about who i want to spend time with.

you wouldnt think i could afford that luxury but i know the reality of being stuck with the wrong person and trying to get out of it...(just relationships - i'm not even talking about the failed marriage)


I'd rather be alone than be with someone i cant communicate with .. and the people i can communicate with at that intimite a level are few and far between.

Wish I was like that about rather be alone than with somebody you can't communicate with. I'm the type of girl who can't stand being alone. I know it is so fuckin crazy, b/c I'm only 20, but I have this fear of being alone and winding up alone.........call me crazy.

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by The STE
yeah, sucks, don't it? The Ring movies have an erie parallel to this kind of stuff happening.

The Ring: I mention that I'm going to see the Ring, and JUST before I ask if this girl I like wants to go, she mentions that she's going with her b/f (didn't know she had one) to homecoming

The Ring 2: Shot down right after we left.


There's a sign somewhere in there...

Whoa...That makes me wonder what would happen if you invited a girl over to watch Ringu with you...Hmm...Maybe you'd better not...heh

[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by Babygurl20
Wish I was like that about rather be alone than with somebody you can't communicate with. I'm the type of girl who can't stand being alone. I know it is so fuckin crazy, b/c I'm only 20, but I have this fear of being alone and winding up alone.........call me crazy.

But...Being with someone you can't communicate with is the same as being alone...only with irritation....I, personally, would rather do without the irritation...

[X¤MurderDoll¤X]

I would have trouble explaining my definition of cheating. It would sound like a "cheaters" definition I guess, even though I'm not really that way anyway.

[The STE]

Originally posted by bloodrayne
Whoa...That makes me wonder what would happen if you invited a girl over to watch Ringu with you...Hmm...Maybe you'd better not...heh

Maybe Ringu would only have an effect if she were asian...and the STE does like him some asian girls...

[bwind22]

If it's something that you'd be pissed about, it's cheating.

If I saw my girl making out with some dude, I'd be pissed and consider it cheating, therefore if I were to do the same thing with a different girl, it would be cheating.

Just make sure your parameters are celarly defined. Maybe your girl wouldnt care if you kissed another girl, but you would hit the ceiling if she kissed another guy. Those kind of things are good to figure out when starting a relationship.

It's all about trust. If you are sneaking around doing stuff with someone of the opposite sex that is not your significant other and you have no intention to let your significant other know about it, I'd call it cheating.

[urgeok]

Originally posted by bwind22
If it's something that you'd be pissed about, it's cheating.

Maybe your girl wouldnt care if you kissed another girl,

pretty good rule of thumb .. but your significant other would have to agree eye to eye on it.


also... i'd pay good money to have my wife kiss another girl.
it ain't happening.

[crazy raplh]

eatin aint cheatin'

[urgeok]

i've been waiting all this time for someone to say that