Cheating?
 

It seems that not all of us have the same definition of 'cheating' *cough* Bill Clinton *cough*....So, I wonder...What do you guys consider cheating and what do you think is just fine?....Is looking okay?...Flirting?...Maybe even a kiss?.......I don't feel right about even THINKING about someone else 'that way' when I'm in a relationship.....

Re: Cheating?
 

waaaaaaatch it.

lets not bring politics into this forum.

Re: Re: Cheating?
 

HAHA...We've been there, done that SOOO many times here...Had some real 'knock down, drag outs'....Horror even said that he was going to give us our own seperate 'Political Debates' forum.....Don't know what the hell ever happened to THAT :rolleyes:

i dont believe in cheating ..

and kissing is to me the most intimite act of all ...


but there is a huge difference between what some people say is flirting and how i define it.

to me flirting is showing interest and letting the other person know that the door of opportunity is wide open..

i dont consider telling someone that they are attractive .. or goofing around ('meet you at the motel at 7:00pm') is flirting ...

anyone i joke around with knows where i'm coming from.

it does piss me of fthough that people consider complimenting a woman on her appearance flirting ...

Wow...I had no idea that we thought so much alike on this one....

Hard to say. Besides the obvious stuff, of course

Re: Cheating?
 

I'm pretty much in the same boat as you. Except looking. Looking, I think, is okay.

I some what agree with Urge on this one. It's cheating to me if you actually fall in love with the person with whom you are talking to etc. Kissing is cheating, and of course having sex is cheating, but telling someone they are hot or even letting someone know your interested in them to me is not cheating


I could go on and on about this one, cuz I have been played in every relationship I have been in, so I am just going to shut my mouth and sit back and read what everyone else has to say

Re: Re: Cheating?
 

Well..That kinda depends for me...I mean there's looking, and thinking something like "that guy is attractive"....And then there's looking and thinking something like "Oh man!...I want some o' that!".....So, I actually think the 'thinking' part, plays a bigger role than it seems...

But...If you're already in a relationship, how could you possibly BE "interested" in someone else?