i thought i would handle it better

[wufong]

Originally posted by evil_blonde
i swear to fucking god i am not making it up
i wont find him, coz im not going to his house.

wether or not any of you believe me doesnt actually matter a great deal, because i know what im talking about, and how im feeling, i think thats kinda most important.

i own a cat

[evil_blonde]

Originally posted by wufong
i own a cat

im so happy for you.
i hope you treat it well.
aka, better than you treat the people on our forum.

[Stingy Jack]

Originally posted by evil_blonde
i am utterly sick of having to argue about this.

i think you'll find i know him a little better than the whole fuckin lot of you.

its better for me to know than not, because how would i find out? i wouldnt. i would be worried until someone told me, and i dont know if anyone would. that would hurt me more than anything, not knowing anything. not knowing what happened. where he went.

plus, if he wanted attention of a girl...thatd be rather lame of him. if he seriously wanted attention..well...come on, he could go out and get laid within a couple of hours if he was really that desperate.

EB, I wasn't really trying to start an argument. I understand how upset you are, and I was actually hoping that I might be able to show you that you may not need to be so upset.

As far as the attention thing goes ... getting laid by someone who cares not a thing for you is not as emotionally satisfying as having someone who cares a lot about you be thinking about you. And it would be pretty lame of him if he is doing this for attention ... I know. I used to do the same thing. When I was fresh out of high school and had to compete for the attention of the ladies with men that were more mature and experienced and I, I made up a whole fake persona that I thought would make me appear more attractive ... and my persona was built entirely around the idea of being mysterious and maybe a little dangerous. I was able to pull it off because it was during my first year in college, in a town where absolutely nobody knew me. It is even easier to pull such a maneuver over the internet.

And I'm not really trying to judge this guy, because you're right when you say you know him better than the rest of us. But, some of the things he's doing ... I've done very similar things. So, I'm just speaking from experience. I recognize the behavior.

Besides ... if he's REALLY so adept at his ability to predict the future, why isn't famous now? Why isn't he showing scientists that precognition is a true and functioning ability in some people? There is no valid scientific evidence to support the truth to claims of precognitive abilities. And I have yet to actually hear someone predict something before it happens (they always say, after the fact, that they had some dream or something that predicted this event. Never before). Do you REALLY beleive that he's precognitive, and are the reasons you have for believing it valid (you personally witnessed an event that he predicted come true, for example)?

If I were you, I would really start asking questions about this guy before you end up in a situation where you're hurt even more than you're hurting now. Again, just speaking from experience.

[evil_blonde]

well...wow....

i want to say thanks, youre obviously a very caring person, sorry for getting mad.

he knows im thinking about him all the time, wether he be dying or alive and kicking, hes like a continuous thought that never goes away. so to do this to me..well it'd be rather questionable.

and yes it makes sense for you to question him, and what hes doing, and why he isnt famous etc.
but, some things are better kept to yourself.
as far as i know, he has only told a very small amount of people (of which i am one) about these "premonitions" or "dreams" so its not as if he making something up and flaunting it everywhere to gain the attention of someone.

i believe him because i trust him, and because i love him.
i havent experienced anything like that specifically but minor things, like me being about to ask a question and him answering me before i ask. or when im talking to him or his brother online and i have to go and they say "bye, i know youre going" before i get a chance to say anything.

and in the case of me never talking to him again, i cannot ask any more questions.

im trying so hard not to believe him, im trying so hard not to believe that he may die tonight.

but what if he does? then thats gotta mean something.

i dont know if it is possible for me to hurt more.
but you never know i suppose.

[Stingy Jack]

Well, I hope he doesn't die tonight either. That way, you can say: "What the hell? I thought you could predict the future!" ;)

Even so, don't be surprised if you don't hear from him right away. If this is an act (and I just say "if"), he'll probably disappear for a little while just to heighten your worry. But, he'll be back with some story about he was in the hospital and the doctors managed to bring him back after being clincally dead for a minute or so (at least, that's what I would have done back in the day when I did this sort of thing to girls.)

Seriously, the internet gives you the chance to reinvent yourself entirely, and I would not be at all surprised if this guy is actually very little like the guy he wants you to believe he is. And I don't want to say this to upset you ... just to sort of give you a warning to keep your guard up, and maybe to lessen the blow if it turns out I'm right.

But, I really hope everything is all as it appears (and he survives). You obviously care about this guy a lot, and I think that's great. I love seeing people get close on a deep, emotional level. It's refreshing. :)

[evil_blonde]

thnx alot stingy, ur a pretty good mate eh?

and i didnt meet him online or anything ive known him for 3 years, in person. and although i dont see him alot in person hes very much the same as he always was. (and i saw him almost every single say for a year)

im trying to convince myself that he will be just fine, coz i cant imagine my life without him.
but theres still the chance of him being gone..forever..

[Stingy Jack]

Originally posted by evil_blonde
thnx alot stingy, ur a pretty good mate eh?

and i didnt meet him online or anything ive known him for 3 years, in person. and although i dont see him alot in person hes very much the same as he always was. (and i saw him almost every single say for a year)

im trying to convince myself that he will be just fine, coz i cant imagine my life without him.
but theres still the chance of him being gone..forever..

Oh, well that changes things a bit. I didn't know you spent all that time with him in person. Could this thing he's doing possibly some sort of ploy to get you to come and visit him?

[bwind22]

Originally posted by Stingy Jack
(at least, that's what I would have done back in the day when I did this sort of thing to girls.)

Lol! I know there's a serious tone in your discussion right now and pardon me for interupting, but I actually laughed out loud when I read that sentence. :)






Hey EB, how's your friend doing today? Hungover?

[fluffho]

Originally posted by evil_blonde
oh and fluffho, i didnt really expect you to understand or believe me or anything.

ok where did that come from? i only said something about emos and pubic hairs

Originally posted by evil_blonde
i am utterly sick of having to argue about this.

i think you'll find i know him a little better than the whole fuckin lot of you.

so basically you wanted everyone to come here and pat you on the back and say how sorry they feel for you becuase you friend is clarevoyant?? you come here to tell us this story as much as you can, and we're all giving our seprate opinions..

Originally posted by evil_blonde
plus, if he wanted attention of a girl...thatd be rather lame of him.

he does sound pretty lame. do i feel bad for him? nope. and im saying this whether hes a stranger or one of my friends. i think hes an idiot and odds are he's gonna come out of this just fine. that is, aside from the fact that he made a complete fool of himself. BUt if he doesnt come out of this fine, whats that spell? suicide. some friend.

as yuo can see, it doesnt take me long to not give a damn about people. especialy when they try pulling BS like this "i can see the future, and im gona die" . pussy... as much of an ass wu sounds like, too bad a lot of it he was right.

[bloodrayne]

For some reason, I just want to know if this guy actually died (which I SERIOUSLY doubt:rolleyes: )...And if not, then what he is saying about WHY not...