my mom is getting married

[monalisa]

Originally posted by pinkfloyd45769
I think you need to get out on your own. I know it's hard at first(been there), but it is all worth it in the end. You will have a better relationship with your mother too.If you cant pay rent on your own, advertise that you are looking for a someone to share an appartment with or something.I see those in our newspaper all the time. I think you and your mother both need your own privacy and space.

Right on, I know I got along better with both my mom and dad once I moved out! :)

[pinkfloyd45769]

Originally posted by monalisa
Right on, I know I got along better with both my mom and dad once I moved out! :)

I think in some ways you begin to appreciate your family more and become alot closer.I think shes maybe a little scared of "getting out" on her own. Its hard at first, but its also a very important step you have to take in your adult life. I was worried about money and it made me want to stay with my mom and dad. I think once you just do it and stop thinking about the negatives you will all be much happier and maybe even better people for it. Good luck with whatever you decide!