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That's a great way to think and live. I commend you. :)
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Hope that helps in some way! :) BTW, I'm terribly un-hip, what's a SIL?
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Well said Pinky!
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Forgiveness depends on the act - a true person of good heart and character will not intentionally (IMO) do anything that would hurt others, therefore more than likely all you'd ever have to forgive them for were honest mistakes, miscommunication...etc...the kind of people that I wouldn't "forgive" are those that have committed acts that have made me doubt everything about their good character - the kind of person I try not to be like, and therefore don't need around me. However, removing oneself from the damaging factor or no longer mixing with the people in question is, to me, just a logical step - it's not about holding a grudge, it's about not allowing events to give me reason to.
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I am holding a grudge against my family because
a. It doesnt require any real effort on my part b. It is a form of punishment for them. I am actively aggressive in the very rare instances that they enter my life. They have wanted me and my family back in their life because they do, no real reason given, and they dont want to own up to what they did, they are completely unrepentant and think thay have done nothing wrong and we should get over it. So I hold on to that little bit of hate, because it keeps me strong against being hurt by them again. Plus, it feels soooo good to say "Fuck 'em". |
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The fastest, easiest way to solve a problem is to eliminate it. Simplify your life
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You kids really missed out growing up in the 80's and early 90's.
We did massive amounts of drugs and alcohol, so now, we don't have those pesky memories to forget in the first place. .....many, many brain cells....poof |
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I was born in '68 but I didn't drink for the first time until I was 16 (1984) and I didn't smoke weed for the first time until I was 19 (1987). I drank a lot throughout my adult life but I've rarely smoked weed or done any other drug. I take a prescription drug that causes CRS but that's short term memory loss. I can't forget the past and mine is an ongoing problem that I can't eliminate. I posted why earlier in this thread. I do avoid my sisters-in-law. They piss me off just by flapping their jaws. It's a mutual thing, too. ;)
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i have an easy solution - i move! i've lived in seven different cities since leaving school. sometimes its just itchy feet - but normally its some relational nonsense - so i just drift on and do (literally) forget them.
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