dilemma

[urgeok]

i feel so much for the kids it hurts ... they dont ask for this shit ..

[AUSTIN316426808]

I don't blame you for wanting to retaliate it's human nature to want to get someone back for severly fucking with you but I don't think you should go to her level.

Confront her about it and try to talk it out and if that doesn't work then fuck her, she's your boyfriend's sister not yours, you don't have to deal with her if you don't want to. I think Rayne said it best you remove the problem you solve the problem.

I actually think your boyfriend should confront her with you. I'm not saying he should alienate his family members but if they do something like this or really anything to offend you then he should take up for you.

[Vodstok]

Here is my #1 concern:

If you do anything like pissing on or administering toilet water on her, you open the possibility of her exposing people in no way involved (her kid, innocent people, maybe even yourself) to someone with contaminated clothing. The thought of someone carrying around all that bacteria (e coli is just one of many possible pathogens) makes me sick, and imagine that is the day she turns over a new leaf and wants to shake your hand, or worse, gives her kid a hug.

Adults can get violently ill off of that, and kids can die from it.


Just some food for thought.


And if you really must do something, egg her car.

[barbra]

I would say cut the crotches out of her pants ( I did that to my sister when we were in high school) or just start hiding her things. Start it slowly one thing at a time. In a week she'll see all this stuff is missing and she'll confront you. Fights are always better when the other person starts it.

[Gren the cake]

Originally posted by bloodrayne
I just wouldn't have anything to do with her...I distance myself from people like that...

Problem removed=Problem solved

stuck with her til august... (lease is up)

and from there, shes STILL his sister. i know hes tired of her, but again, theyre still brother/sister (although only half, ahem) and hes much more forgiving than i am.

[Gren the cake]

i would hardly consider pissing on her clothes/toilet watering her clothes revenge. again, im all for revenge but im not gonna do something like slash tires, break dishes, etc etc.. im gonna do something fuckin weird cuz thats how i am

and i have been thinkin about the kid. but its been months and it turns into there is NOTHING i can do. not my kid.

fact of the matter was, the reason WHY i let her eat my food was cuz i figured her daughter was eating it. she's 10. i think that fuckin sucks that shes 33 or so, with a 10 year old and no food. so i was like fine, that girl has no money, cant drive to the store or anything so ill let her eat. but then it got ridiculous, she'd eat it all the time and NEVER put anything back (buy stuff)

as far as the pissing, i talked with my bf about random things i can do and he was oK with the pissing, not ok with breaking dishes, not ok with pissing on her car. so yeh, he's behind me.

as far as bacteria, piss is pretty clean surprisingly. agian, if i DO do something, its not till this weekend.

but yeh, what im honestly hoping for is that she will try and come up to me and apologize. seriously, 2 weeks ago she wrote a note 'will you two come to ____'s 5th grade promotion on the 22nd?' and now all of a sudden shes throwing out my food? like i siad, it is little to do with me, she is just fuckin up in life and wants to find someone to yell/point at other than herself.

anywa, i would LOVE for her to try and apologize or even talk/level with me. from there, ohh she is gonna get the verbal annihilation of her LIFE.

id like to videotape or audio it.. but... eh.

anyway. my bf and i were tlaking about the daughter and yeh, he even says shes gonna turn out shitty. its very very sad. he and his sister grew up in shitty conditions and he doesnt get how diferently they turned out. his sister is doing to him and her daughter exactly what their mother did to them. not good stuff.

just boils down to.. its LITTLE of our business. as much as it sucks..........

:/ but yeh believe me i HAVE been thinkin about the kid. but in the end, just got to let mommy do as she pleases and lead my own life

but yeh. shes dead fuckin wrong fi shes just gona fuck with me like that. especially when she doesnt even nkow me.. fuckin psychopath.

[Gren the cake]

Originally posted by barbra
I would say cut the crotches out of her pants ( I did that to my sister when we were in high school) or just start hiding her things. Start it slowly one thing at a time. In a week she'll see all this stuff is missing and she'll confront you. Fights are always better when the other person starts it.

i thought abou taking her stuff too.

the least she coulda done with the food was write a note and say 'i want this out by __ or i will throw it out'

the VERY least she coulda done is to throw out the food and at least save the tupperwares. fuckin jackass. not only is that a waste of money but thats a waste of plastic, and im a BIT of an environmentalist

so i was thinkin of just starting to steal her stuff. but im not gonna throw it out, im gonna donate it to charity :)

[Haunted]

Pissing on something isn't weird. My ex college roommate (awesome person that she is) pissed on her old roommate's pocket buck because the bitch bit her.

[Gren the cake]

woahh. ICONS!

well maybe not weird. but ya know, usualyl when you want revenge you steal their stuff, break something, slash tires, or kill them

but im gonna piss. but i dunno, i feel gross. i never liked pissing in a cup.

id take a shit on her bed except that would be pretty obvious i did it. i hafto be careful with what i do cuz as moronic as she is she'll be likely to try and steal the security deposit. which is my Bfs money and $700.

she takes enough of his money as it is :(. it makes me sad how shitty people can be, especially to the ones they love.

but i told him, as long as im here im not gonan see some trash step all over you anymore. so if hes gonna allow her to step on him, then we will have a problem.

[Gren the cake]

i would bite her except my 2 top front teeth, especially the left, as well as the 4 bottom teeth (all the middle ones) are kinda weak. fractured, and im afriad they will break

i mean i can go get it fixed right away but still.. whether its 2 hours or 5 minutes im with a mangled tooth would be horrible.