How to Act at the Bars

[MoonLit Meadow]

Originally posted by jenna26
I have never really been into the bar/club scene myself. I go occasionally with friends of mine, but you are right, there is always trouble. Of course, all that alcohol can be a very dangerous thing for some people. And most of those people are blissfully unaware of how it effects them. Or just don't care.

I feel the same way as you do. I could care less about going, to be honest. Most of the times I went, I was in college and I just went to hang out with all of my friends. That scene in general really isn't my thing...usually just a bunch of creepy people looking to get laid ;) Also not my thing...hmm...that doesn't sound right...I mean, one night stands aren't my thing...:p

So yeah, I guess I'm not missing out on much. However, it really does ruin the night when you just want to relax and have some laughs with friends, and some idiot causes problems.

[jenna26]

Originally posted by MoonLit Meadow
I feel the same way as you do. I could care less about going, to be honest. Most of the times I went, I was in college and I just went to hang out with all of my friends. That scene in general really isn't my thing...usually just a bunch of creepy people looking to get laid ;) Also not my thing...hmm...that doesn't sound right...I mean, one night stands aren't my thing...:p

So yeah, I guess I'm not missing out on much. However, it really does ruin the night when you just want to relax and have some laughs with friends, and some idiot causes problems.

Really what stopped me from going so much was a friend of mine had her drink drugged. I wasn't there that night, but her and another friend of mine woke up on the opposite side of town without knowing how they got there. Scary.

Creepy people indeed. I am not into one night stands either, so it holds no appeal to me to be felt up by some drunken fool looking for a thrill.....charmers that they might be.:rolleyes:

But yes, it would be nice to be able to go out, have a few drinks and not have to worry about the morons coming out to play.

[MoonLit Meadow]

Originally posted by jenna26
Really what stopped me from going so much was a friend of mine had her drink drugged. I wasn't there that night, but her and another friend of mine woke up on the opposite side of town without knowing how they got there. Scary.

Creepy people indeed. I am not into one night stands either, so it holds no appeal to me to be felt up by some drunken fool looking for a thrill.....charmers that they might be.:rolleyes:

But yes, it would be nice to be able to go out, have a few drinks and not have to worry about the morons coming out to play.

That IS scary...it's a shame we have to be so paranoid wherever we go...you just never know what anyone's up to...sounds cliche, but really...your life can change in the blink of an eye.

I've found the only way to really go out to a bar and have a decent time is to go with my guy friends...at least then, nobody bothers me. If I go out with a group of girls...forget it...I feel like I'm in a tank with a bunch of piranha's surrounding me ;):p

[Haunted]

You know. I don't have that problem. People stay away from me.



It's good to be a witch.

[novakru]

Originally posted by Haunted
You know. I don't have that problem. People stay away from me.



It's good to be a witch.

lmao:cool:

[jenna26]

Originally posted by MoonLit Meadow
I've found the only way to really go out to a bar and have a decent time is to go with my guy friends...at least then, nobody bothers me. If I go out with a group of girls...forget it...I feel like I'm in a tank with a bunch of piranha's surrounding me ;):p

LMFAO!! Pretty much. I usually make sure it is a mixed crowd if I go. I have this one friend who is 6'6'' and 300 pounds....no one messes with me when he is around unless they are scary drunk or scary stupid. So I usually try to convince him to go with me wherever I go.:D

[MoonLit Meadow]

Originally posted by jenna26
LMFAO!! Pretty much. I usually make sure it is a mixed crowd if I go. I have this one friend who is 6'6'' and 300 pounds....no one messes with me when he is around unless they are scary drunk or scary stupid. So I usually try to convince him to go with me wherever I go.:D

LOL!!! That's a good idea...think I could borrow him next time I go out? ;):D

[jenna26]

Originally posted by MoonLit Meadow
LOL!!! That's a good idea...think I could borrow him next time I go out? ;):D

Sure, but you have to give him back!;)
If he gets a little frisky himself, just slap him upside the head.....it brings him back to the reality of the situation...lol.

[urgeok]

most guys wont hang around if the girl is putting out a fuck off vibe (unless they are drunk off their feet)

if a girl encourages the bullshit - then they are stuck with the assholes.

it'd be interesting to see how Alive's female companion handled the situation ..

A lot of girls dig the extra attention or think 'they're just trying to be nice' (who's seriously that dumb ?)


put a guy off and he'll probably call you a bitch - but he'll bugger off and try his luck elsewhere

[ItsAlive75]

Originally posted by urgeok
it'd be interesting to see how Alive's female companion handled the situation ..

A lot of girls dig the extra attention or think 'they're just trying to be nice' (who's seriously that dumb ?)

Haha, she handled it that exact way. I talked to her when I got up this morning and she said she didn't even want them there, but she was so drunk she just liked guys hitting on her.

I told her, "Shit, I would've hit on you if that's what you wanted! And we would've had more beer!"

Sometimes they just don't think...