how do u heal a broken heart?

[Nana_baby]

if you hate for so long is it posible to love again?

[zomb5150]

Sounds to Me like somebody needs a hug.
My door is always open.:)

[VampiricClown]

Yes, it is possible. But it also depends on how long as you've said, hated, as to how long it will be before you can love or even like someone again. And uhhhhh...... I hate most everyone. So....yeah.

[filmmaker2]

Well, first off, don't be concerned if the therapy isn't effective immediately; just keep at it. A broken heart does not just go away poof like that. They usually take MINIMUM 2 weeks, can sometimes take a great deal longer but you can try for 2 weeks if you really work at it.

You need to talk to friends about it, and only the good supportive friends. Don't talk about it with people who have an especially mean or cruel nature, they may say things that will depress you a lot more.

Watch a lot of movies, particularly funny ones, but mix in a violent one here and there, like Friday the 13th. Old movies that take you completely away to another time also can help.

Drink orange juice at least once a day when recovering from heartache.

Go out and see the world, hang out with people outdoors.

[VampiricClown]

Originally posted by filmmaker2
Well, first off, don't be concerned if the therapy isn't effective immediately; just keep at it. A broken heart does not just go away poof like that. They usually take MINIMUM 2 weeks, can sometimes take a great deal longer but you can try for 2 weeks if you really work at it.

Watch a lot of movies, particularly funny ones, but mix in a violent one here and there, like Friday the 13th. Old movies that take you completely away to another time also can help.

2 weeks!? It took me like 6 month's to get over a 2 month relationship:eek:

Funny movies, yes.
Mushy movies, no.
And violent movies may wind up putting you in a mood to be violent and hurt yourself or others.

[Haunted]

I hate a person. I can't help it. It's a natural reaction to the bullshit they caused in my life. I tried to stop them, but they proceeded to go forth into pissing me off beyond repair.

Try not to hate. It really isn't healthy, and I am speaking from experience. When you hate, you automatically fill the requirements for being jaded. It's very hard to love and to trust someone if you're completely jaded.

"Try just a little bit harder," as Janice Joplin sang. Try to open the windows of your heart and let a little moonlight awaken you. You might be surprised at the hapiness that you find.

Also, note that I never believe in taking my own advice. That would make my life easier, and I can't deal with that.:p

[filmmaker2]

Originally posted by VampiricClown
2 weeks!? It took me like 6 month's to get over a 2 month relationship:eek:

Well, that 2 weeks was a suggested minimum...it CAN take a lot longer (oh, I've been there, too!), depending on so many factors...how hard you fell in the first place, and how hard you're trying to get over it, etc.

[The STE]

well, whatever you do, don't just write the whole situation off and deny any sort of closure, turning to chronic insomnia and sweet sweet painkillers because Vicodin is like mana from heaven.

...what was the question?

[filmmaker2]

Oh and I forgot to mention: BEWARE YOUR OWN FEELINGS! KONG fell in love too and it fucked him up, but good! You should learn to have a healthy fear of your emotions. I'm sorry but this post doesn't make any sense, please disregard it.

[The_Return]

My advice: find someone to talk to. Tell them everything, confide in them your heart and soul. I always feel better after talking to a certain friend of mine, and hopefully you can find someone like her.