[bloodrayne]

Originally posted by theshadow
i am a female cancer. my hubby a leo. we must be compatible we've been together a long time.

Well...Here is another one where I hope that you have read all of my disclaimers...It's all about love, patience and compromise....

Leo will have a lot of trouble breaking through the protective shell of the Cancerian because the crab likes to hide her feelings inside and shows the world a very different image of being thicker skinned than she really is. Eventually Leo will break through and then he will find a very sensitive person with feelings that are easily damaged.

Cancer is initially attracted to Leo's regal bearing and fun loving manner, but shortly Cancer will find out just how different their value system is from one another and the fiery ardor of Leo will cause Cancer to feel that real love cannot last with such intensity and begins to doubt his heartfelt words of love. Being Moody and easily hurt by almost everything that is said will cause Cancer to sulk for days and this will not go over very big with Leo, who has no time for someone who cannot keep up with him.

The quiet outer facade of Cancer was possibly the attraction for Leo, and Cancer will do well to try to be everything that Leo expects in a mate. Cancer can provide, totally by instinct, the kind of home Leo wants and expects and this alone can heal many wounds. Leo's occasional, wildly extravagant moods will aggravate the economical values of Cancer. Cancer worries about the future and the future is the furthermost thing from Leo's mind and only amuses him.

Both Leo and Cancer feel they should be the 'boss' and the home loving, nurturing, Cancer will spend more time sulking than talking unless she is allowed to make most of the decisions. This situation could not be tolerated by Leo who must be in the limelight, or be gone. Sexually, Leo's demands can get excessive as their appetites vary considerably. With all the differences in personalities clashing constantly this could be a shaky union, but with a more considerate and giving attitude on the part of Leo, and the positive type of Cancerian it can be made to work. Otherwise, this is not recommended.

You must be a very "positive" person...That is quite an admirable quality:)