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I know exactly what you're talking about. It's a chemical thing. There are some people who simply mesh perfectly in a chemical and biological sense and other that work in the opposite way - nothing to do with love or attratcion or any kind of emotion other than a need.
You want to fuck him, you want to attack him and conquor him, but you are logical and know that it would cause him harm.
Sounds like you're half-way through it already. It's tough. You're obsessed. Obsession is powerful...and it also passes. Once the logical side of your brain takes over, you'll be free and clear.
but then again, I am a home wrecker who hooked up with a girl who had been living with a guy for 9 years. She's been my wife for 12 years now (on April Fool's Day) and we're still terribly attracted to each other.
I'd say tease him a little. If he takes the bait, then he isn't ready to get married. Sometimes mindless hot sex is exactly what you need.:D
IIf the idea of screwing up his marriage bothers you, then go find someone - anyone. A random hot hook-up could totally purge your needs right now.
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Last edited by Roderick Usher; 03-14-2009 at 10:56 AM.
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