Quote:
Originally Posted by Azazel005
Finding anything you love is important though and looking into the open world thinking “why can't I find the one meant for me?” simply denies you the pleasure of all the other things you love. Don't waste you heart pining use it, use it on other things and more then likely you will cross paths with someone that you can fall in love with and it's always much more powerful when your not staring at the horizon looking for it.
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It's true. I honestly don't understand the mindset of people who are
looking for that one. In my life, I've loved people, I do love people, but there was never a point where I was
looking for love.
What's more important is finding that love in your life, be it hobbies, movies, music, going out, staying in, whatever it is... And sometimes some
one will wander in... sometimes they won't... But regardless, if you don't have other things in your life that fulfill you, then it doesn't matter whether or not there is that
One. You can't sit there and hold out for that
One. You can't sit there an pine for that
One. You need to look and fulfill
yourself. Putting a huge amount of pressure and expectations on Love will do nothing but let you down. And I don't mean that in a pessimistic way; I'm not saying that the
One doesn't exist. What I'm saying is that if you build up the concept of that
Perfect One, well guess what - You will be disappointed.
Find fulfillment in your life. If you're lonely, go out and meet people, but don't put pressure on them with this concept of the
perfect one - it's not fair to you and it's not fair to that person that you're with. It also doesn't leave a lot of room for exploration and experimentation. The fact of the matter is that people are not perfect - You're not and neither are the people that you find... But if you find things in your life that fulfill you, then you won't hold out for that ONE PERSON to complete you.
Complete yourself
first.