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I ususally forgive people in a second. The only exceptions are if someone insults my little brother, or if they attempt to make a fool of me in public. I can't deal with humiliation.
My boyfriend says I forgive too quickly though. I forgive people right off the bat, while he says that people need to make an attempt to fix things before they deserve to be forgiven. I just don't need the added stress of holding a grudge so I drop it right away. I guess that's a little more me being a push over than being the forgiving type.
Forgetting is just about the same. It's virtually instant. I want things to be in the past so I can move on while I still hold a chance of being that persons friend.
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