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Originally Posted by urgeok2
my 1st wife and i were deep in the process of adopting a baby girl from china .. just a couple of weeks away when the marriage completely fell apart.
she was thinking a baby would help - which is completely insane.
a child can put extra stress on a relationship ..a child in a relationship thats already gone to hell ?
i realized i couldnt do that to a kid ... especially one thats had a tough start already. it would have been the same thing i went through as a kid.
still really sad about it though ... always wanted a girl..
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Oh, Honey...
Have you and your current wife considered a similar adoption?
If my boyfriend and I get to a point where we're ready for children, we will either be foster parents and be a support for the American foster care system... OR we'll go through the process to adopt a baby girl from China. We'll see what happens over the next couple of years.