[Leprucky Cougar]

Originally Posted by monster123

So this is a semi old thread i decided to read and all i can say is your a pretty awesome guy probably one of the best I've ever seen. I grew up in a family that completely hates women, my fathers first marriege went to hell and now he treats his second wife (my mom) like dirt. He taught his boys that women were sluts and evil. So i totally get what your saying people need to raise there kids to love and cherish women. I think your a good person Urgeok! (idk your real name).

Has she considered divorcing him?

I'm a female and I grew up in a household with both parents and they both respected each other. My mom however, is my dad's second wife. He divorced his first because of very caniving things she did to him (and kept away from him in the past). Before he met my mother, I wouldn't say he gave up on women, because like many of you guys was a "nice guy"--a gentleman even. But after enduring all he did with his ex-wife, he was skeptical about women and their intentions; and his only weakness when I think about it was loving one (a woman) either too easily or too hard (not knowing, but thinking the feeling's mutual).

I think China though builds being sexist as a family value. There's a child limit there and all female children are disapprovals and "disgraces" to them; I assume that's why so many Americans adopt chinese girls and bring them to America.