Psycom, I'm sorry. I don't have very much advice this time around, just a big ol':
And as ridiculously trite as this may sound, but, "This too shall pass." Sometimes life totally sucks. It's how you deal with it that really counts. You guys will be able to take care or yourselves. And through then, we're here for you.
Whether you like it or not.... mwahahahahahahahahaaaaaaaa