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I know of at least 2 people in my life who are total losers even when they were / are supremely confident. They are homeless and jobless today. (regardless to say, lady-less too)

Confidence isnt the only factor which attracts a girl. There is something about a mean guy - his assholic tendencies, his rather quirky "humorous" way of looking at things the cock-eyed way - which is usually a lady-magnet.

Also, the source. A mean guy almost always either A) has lots of money, or B) has some sort of power. Which is the reason of him feeling confidence in being an asshole to anyone and everyone.

It's easy to see - the douchebags usually have a girl wrapped around their necks more often than not.

I say about 50% of it is confidence, and the other 50% comes from seeing an asshole treat another person like shit, while he is unable to do anything in return...which wets a girl's panties.