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Originally Posted by hellfire1
Yeah... I think so too. :p
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Oh, honey.
What happened?
Honestly, you can't get along all the time. My boyfriend absolutely frustrates me sometimes, but I don't think that I would say that I've ever
hated him (which actually means a lot because I personally suffer from serious rage issues and generally wind up resenting and/or hating people that I'm with after a period of time).
However, we've only been together for a year (best friends for 2). Five years is a
long-ass time. At this point it's either work out those differences (make sure to be very open and honest with him and don't rule out couples counseling - if you really want it to work, it could be worth it), and if you don't think you can get passed them, well,
is this what you want?
Then again, I honestly have no frame of reference. Pardon me if I sound didactic.
The best words of advice that I've gotten re relationships was from a friend of mine who married her high school sweetheart and has been together for 10 years now (happily and preggo):
Pick your battles. For someone who deals with uncontrollable rage (and I did for a while), that honestly helped me center myself when I found myself really getting pissed at my boyfriend.
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Originally Posted by VampiricClown
Is that so? Hmmm, maybe that's why that girl asked me...nevermind. I'm not sure if even mentioning that is legal.
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I think I
heart you.
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You can be my corpse anytime. *readies syringe*