I think any issues where people get angry enough to do something drastic is an excellent issue to discuss and I am glad it was brought up.
A guy I knew said he was pro-life, and was adament about it-thought women that had abortions were lower than shit.
Turn the clock up 5 years later and he gets a girl knocked up...guess who suggests an abortion..not her.
My own story.... I get pregnant at 19-not married, the guy is an asshole and we are on the verge of breaking up....
I do happen to be pro-choice but I didn't feel like I could possibly go through with an abortion...just could NOT do it.
My decision was made for me with a miscarriage.
My aunt- was 23-in school with an abusive boyfriend, she's claimed she was pro-life and all women that had abortions were welfare trash sluts.
But who has an abortion?
This was a decision that she had a VERY hard time doing and to this day, she feels bad about it.
I think for years after her abortion she cried when she saw babies.
I think I even wrote about her story a few years back on here.
A friend of mine was pregnant at 18, she was pro-life, had the baby....he's the most royally fucked up person I have ever known in my entire life...there are things he has done that if he HAD been aborted...well-let's just say there's at least one girl that would have a decent life right now.
Anyway, the first step to making a hot topic less chaotic is to get it DISCUSSED.
We ALL want to do the right thing,be the upstanding so and so, whatever...
but to test that in real life HUMAN conditions is another story altogether.
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