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Originally Posted by Phalanx
Fuck...you seriously feel as though you don't have the right to say whatever on account of being "new" here? Who fuckin' cares how new you are...if you've been buying into that for some reason, stop...I never once said anything like that myself...
re: what you said stub - I hope you didn't just relate her not being in complete unison with your views (or mine, you might've noticed) to some kind've dislike of newer members...if ever there's been another member here that's had fewer run- ins with anyone, new or not...I'd be surprised.
Not everything and everyone in life has to go your way...stop taking the world so personally. For someone claiming a right to an opinion you seem to be stepping on others right to make that choice for themselves.
Nothing to do with you being new or old...
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You took others opinions very personally. And the irony is, their opinions were not in opposition of your pov/opinion, it was simply that provocative last line comment. Its about your attitude - "No need to defend yourselves because I know I am right". You seem to have ignored what my posts were about. You have just jumped on this "see, I was right, you are on the defense because you disagree with my pov/opinion".
How many times does it take one to type what this is really about?
I am defending the right to tell you that your were rather arrogant and bigoted to dismiss anyone. That any remark that was deemed a negation of your point of view is an obvious defense mechanism of parents who are probably guilty of your observations. You didnt give people a chance by dismissing any negative response as defensive.
No one actually was in true disagreeance - more so, this was about that last line - (see above)- I have mentioned it plenty of times now.
Perhaps you said that last line as a deliberate provocation but when it got too hot you wanted to run away - twice you said you are outta here!!
What if I ended this with "and there is no need to defend yourself, I know I am right"? How would that make you feel?
For everyone's sanity, including my own (its tiring having to repeat oneself!) - I am leaving this alone now - but I do think you should consider MY reasons for responding to your original post .
I repeat - this is about your dismissive attitude, not your point of view/opinion.