[bleeding_angelgirl]

I'm in the middle of this, I would never have an abortion and I think girls and women should only use it as a last resort, there are to many options today from financial assistants to adoptions, but I am for it when it comes to rape, I understand how B.R said its almost impossible to get pregnant when raped, but I don’t agree with the comment
If there hot, its sex,
If there ugly, its rape,
My mom was raped by my dad when they were married and he was drunk. I know some people say its not considered rape then, but trust me until your married and in a abusive marriage and your in that situation, then you have no right saying its not possible, he’s your husband. Then there is the girls who are raped by there fathers. What are they suppos to do have the baby? Not only would it be a constant remind of the girls child hood, but the baby would also be at a very high risk of child defects. Then there are the girls who didn’t think ahead and use protection or the protection broke, and I'm especially referring to the 18 or younger girls, now days it’s very common for girls to be having sex at 15 even. Lets say one of these girls had gotten pregnant from there bad choice of having sex so young. I would say to them, keep it, except I have met girls in this situation were if there mother or father found out they would be severely beaten or there parents would force them to have the abortion. If we took away these kinds of girls rights to have abortions I think it would be a mistake. If the person who’s having the baby's safety is in jeopardy or the child’s chance of living a healthy life is slim then the option should be open. I also have to add that maybe if parents were more involved in a positive way in there children’s life then maybe kids wouldn’t be having sex at such a early age now, I think until your 18 you shouldn’t have sex, your to young to deal with the consequence. truthfully I think 20 is better, and I’m not a hipacrit because I was a virgin till I was 20, I wanted to wait till I was mature enough to deal with any consequences. Most of my friends were having se by 15 though. My best friend had sex at 14. I find this disturbing. Personally, it makes me feel girls now days don’t value there self worth. Even though I feel this way about waiting to have sex, I do respect the girls who are young who do keep the baby and try there best to take care of it. There very brave for making the choice. I know if I was ever pregnant at 16 and kept the child I would have been very scared. So any young mothers out there, you have my respect. People make mistakes but its how they deal with there mistakes that is important.

oh and I took the advice on using word processors spell check, thanks who ever told me to try that. I did and it worked great.