[bloodrayne]

Originally Posted by Vodstok

she lucked out with her parents.

This is SO true...I love the way you think :)

I have only ONE friend who doesn't want anyone to know, and he's miserable...He believes his family would disown him, he's afraid he'd lose his job and that his friends would turn their backs on him, he won't even tell his GIRLFRIEND, and for all he knows she may even like the idea...He doesn't live where we live, and I guess some places are not as 'accepting' as others...But, I don't understand what he's afraid of, because he is NOT doing anything illegal, he likes to do it for fun, it excites him, and it makes him feel more sexually uninhibitted...I think it's really sad that he feels he has to hide this part of him, and that he is actually suffering because of it...It must be terrible to have to pretend that you're someone you're not...It would kinda be like being in prison, locked away inside of yourself...

He isn't even GAY

All of the rest of my friends who do this (and live around here), are perfectly happy to express themselves however they like...Everyone here knows that they do it, hell they even do it in public, and just about all of the girls I know think it's sexy as hell...I think the turn on is knowing that a guy who isn't afraid to do that is very uninhibited sexually, and willing to try new things...It's much better than someone whose closed off and uptight...Who wants to hear "No, I couldn't do THAT" ?...No matter WHAT the 'that' is when it comes to sex...

These guys get ALL the chicks, I'm serious...They are very happy guys :)