[Posher778]

Originally posted by SKOOFx
DONT TELL HER.

this is how freindships get ruined.


bottom line, if she felt the same, something would have happened..or will happen.

Ignore your feelings, just be kool chill you, and if she ever feels the same way. Something will happen, dont try to make it happen.

It never will.


I know it easier said than done, but based on personal experience, and statstics(checking out other posts of this nature) , its just better to let things happen naturally.

I dont know how old you are, but this seems like a "teen issue". Those relationships just dont work. And if they do, its only a matter of time before your "feelings" for her, get in the way of the original freinship that began it all.

She will feel weird.
She will want out.
You will be heart broken.
And you will have lost a freind.


Relationships happen on their own. Those are the ones that are long lasting.

The ones where you didnt even plan on a relationship, you just hung out..got close...bam..started with a kiss..and both parties say " hey...lets try something" ...they both nod..they kiss..and go back to BEING FREINDS..

the only difference is....there is booty....some xtra emoptional "open-ness"(like..i love you)...and thats it...

a freind who naturally became more....a freind who somehow became very close to you and visa versa..

dont chase it...you will never catch it.

I'm sorry but I cannot take this advice. It's entirely not true for the most part. Yes I am a teen, and these relationships work out all the time. I have friends that have been dating for 2 years +