If you two have been friends for a long time, I'd say tell her how you feel. But say it in such a way that she knows you'll still be friends even if the "in love" thing doesen't happen. I have a friend that I've been friends with for about 23 years, and one night, when neither of us was going out with anyone, we decided to satisfy our curiouslity. It never lead to a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, actually I think we both knew that beforehand but we were curious. We are still friends and that was about 15 years ago. Actually I think it enhanced our friendship to get that out of the way. And on the other hand, some of the best relationships I've had started out as friendship. So I'd say go for it. Just don't be all freaky and clingy about it.
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