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Moonlit,
its not that "the person isnt doing it for you anymore".
its just human nature.
there is nothing wrong with wanting to feel someone else sexually. different bodies..different movements...its just something different.
Has nothing to do with your significant other not doing it for you.
I like pizza sicilian..and plain..since when do we have to only be satisfied with one thing?
im not saying i cheat. Never have.
but, i do think about other women, and i do think about how nice it would be to have sex with a different person.
Its just human nature. People deny it..but deep down...everyone at one point has an attraction to someone else besides their significant other.
And i bet that if you tell that person, that they can have sex with someone else..and they are 100% gauranteed,your gf/bf wont find out and wont get hurt....most people would do it.
because THATS where love comes in.
If you know it will hurt the person, and you love them. ITS NOT WORTH IT.
If you love that person, you will never want to hurt them.
BUT, if that person wont get hurt by your actions, its a different story. Its still YOUR life. Just because you dating , doesnt mean she OWNS you 100%. you can still have a little mystery and a little personal side. Same applies for the female.
My gf and I always say. We arent ONE life..we simply share our lives. People need to learn that.
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