[stubbornforgey]

Thanks for the advice guys..
I have talked til em blue in the face.
I have praised her when she does good..i have scolded her when she does bad..
I treat her like shes one of my own
and nothing....total outright disrespect for anybody.
My brother and i have sat mother down and told her how it is n for a whole day (max)..mum agrees...then walla!!back to the same ole same ole.
She has other grandchildren who just hunger for her attention...
one of them just landed herself a top job working for the nz government ..right in parliment grounds...mothers reply was..
oh thats nice..stephs gonna be prime minister one day..
em like yeah ma....she wags school..she lies n steal..she'll make a hell of a politician.
We took that neice out to dinner to congratulate her ..before she headed off to wellington..I never invited steph...mum refused to come cos steph wasnt there.
I wish i could bitch slap my mother but ..LOL...she maybe old but she can still whop our asses..n besides..shes my mum.Whether she wants it or not..she still has our total loyalty n respect.