[BoneSaw]

this is a very interesting topic, because it strikes home for me. i have been married almost 7 years and i have been fighting urges for a while. i say fighting because it is a constant struggle. when i married my wife, i stood up and promised her, myself, and my god that i would remain faithful to her and our relationship. it has been very interesting to say the least. i love her very much, and would never physically cheat on her, but i have cheated on her in my heart. you see, i have come to realize that there are very few things in this world worth having, most less fighting for. honor, though, is one of them. and when i lust after a woman, even though i dont even talk to her, i am dishonoring my self and my wife. because i made that vow, you see. and yet, i cant seem to completely stop doing it.but i try. so i believe that cheating is anything you do that takes your focus away from the person that you have committed yourself to.