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Originally posted by bloodrayne
And again...There is the difference in semantics....I view being interested in someone as being interested in a possible relationship with them...
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well, i'd have to explain for you to see where i'm coming from ..
I've never dated ..per say.
the thought of going somewhere with someone i dont know just because i liked the way they looked terrified me. I couldn't make it through a meal if the person turned out to be a ding-dong.
the girls i ended up with were friends at first .. i wanted to get to know then under more relaxed circumstances.
If she turned out to be someone i could actually enjoy talking with .. then it would naturely evolve into a relationship.
so if i'm in a relationship and i meet someone else and they have a lot of the qualities i like .. then naturally i would think the person is cool and i could recognize the potential ... but that would be the same or less than what i have now .. so there would be no need or desire to push on with it ...
and honestly - when i was in my 1st marriage and things were going horribly - i never had the desire to cheat then either ... although - believe it or not.. i was offered a wicked chance to.