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unfortunately due to the sexist roll models we fit our children into from birth .. girls are encouraged to be caregivers and boys are rough and tumble.
They commonly fight and wrestle which is actually instictual (the deep rooted biological need to develop survival strengths)
Besides that there are the physical make-up diferences.
Again .. in primitive times this was for a reason .. hunting, surviving, etc.
So that leaves us with women - who for the most part are physically smaller and far less agressive ...
I know there are always exceptions, i'm talking about the norm.
and remember .. when a girl decides to fight - a piece of shit preditor with fight harder and dirtier .. and he doesnt care how messed up your face and body is when he decides to take advantage .. let alone just a violent beating.
training in self defense isnt always the answer either ... some of these guys have trained their whole lives.
the best possible way to avoid this is to get out of a bad relationship at the 1st sign of anything like that (dont wait for things to get better 'he's really sweet when he's not drunk')
and be smart where you go at night ... use the buddy system .. and stay out of bad areas ... until the day that its safe for women to go whereever, whenever ... given its 2005 now - i cant ever see a day when women and children are safe though ... people - for the most part - are fucking evil.
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