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Originally Posted by TaeKwonZombie
so you're saying someone who strangles his fiancee and throws her out of a building isnt psycho?
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Depends on your definition of psycho I guess. Like I posted I've seen enough Dateline, Nancy Grace, Court TV, and other shows to know that these sort of blow ups are kind of normal human actions in bad relationships.
I would assume strangling a person is in part because you don't want to hear a word out of their mouth anymore. Most likely the lies. After all if you lie to the FBI or Congress you can go to jail. Lie in a relationship and the person that was lied to has to have the sense to realize that they are dealing with a garbage person.
And the throwing is like throwing away garbage. People do it everyday. Throwing a person from a building or cruise ship for example that I just read about is the same sort of thing.
Here are two more classics. Both show the sort of behavior that will push the average man or woman to violence. But men usually don't behave like the women in these videos. Unless they are the other persuasion but I don't know much about that.
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Originally Posted by Sculpt
You know, I don't disagree with you in this sense: couples, very especially married couples, need to talk about all the big things that are going wrong in the relationship as it goes along, that day/week, so they can be worked on, they come to understandings, changes made and compromises. There should be no surprises. Somebody moving out and/or divorcing should never be a surprise. The spouse should know that's going to happen if specific things don't change, and they'll know this for something like 6 months or more.
I'm not saying a spouse might not move out immediately if there's violence or infidelity. Even those massive hits on marriage can sometimes be saved with serious counseling. But I'm more talking about things lesser than those.
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With the bad relationships that are built on lies, usually the liar places their priorities over that of the relationship. So they won't care about the giving the other person time to plan anything. And I don't believe after violence or infidelity a relationship can be saved. Both damage the foundations.