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Originally Posted by ImmortalSlasher
Moving like changing apartment or homes.
Not to turn this into a relationship topic but when a person plans that sort of thing instead of planning things in the relationship they are in. That's bound to set the majority of people off. You are essentially telling a person that they are your enemy. You get classic situations like this in the movies.
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You know, I don't disagree with you in this sense: couples, very especially married couples, need to talk about all the big things that are going wrong in the relationship as it goes along, that day/week, so they can be worked on, they come to understandings, changes made and compromises. There should be no surprises. Somebody moving out and/or divorcing should never be a surprise. The spouse should know that's going to happen if specific things don't change, and they'll know this for something like 6 months or more.
I'm not saying a spouse might not move out immediately if there's violence or infidelity. Even those massive hits on marriage can sometimes be saved with serious counseling. But I'm more talking about things lesser than those.