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Originally Posted by Sculpt
Maybe you're just letting off stream; but in case you're looking for feedback, I think we're missing some things.
1. Why do you think his friends liked you? And what happened that make you think your BF didn't like that? (we'll just call him BF) This sounds like the source of an issue; good to examine.
2. what happened -- immediately before -- him saying he doesn't want a serious relationship? (specifically in the conversation)
It's unlikely a guy would invite you out with his friends with the intention of telling you he doesn't want a serious relationship. (If he was looking for hookup, the invite would be 1on1) I would have to assume something occurred to initiate him saying that. And I'm certainly not suggesting you "did something wrong"; but we might be able to give you some insight on the male psyche, maybe specifically in the group dynamic.
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Well, he took me to hang out at his friend's house. A couple's house. And his female friend said that she was really overprotective of him because he was like a brother to her. And that he never brought girls over. At the end of the night before we left she wanted to exchange numbers so that we could all hang out on new years. So she was making plans for us. And I just said ok. I did not make any plans with her involving any of us. I also should add that he has a son. He's only like 5. And she was involving him.
I do not have kids. Not that that really matters I guess. But the fact that he does matters. So maybe he got freaked out by that.
But I never tried to push anything on him at all.