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Originally Posted by Tracy133
My random thought of the day is that if you ask a girl out to hang out with your friends. And the friends like the girl... Why is that a bad thing??? And then the guy gets all freaked out and tells you that he doesn't want a serious relationship 
I'm sorry Asshat I didn't realize that I asked you to be in a relationship in the first place? I thought we were just hanging out. I didn't ask you to marry me or to make plans to buy a freaking house or something!  |
Maybe you're just letting off stream; but in case you're looking for feedback, I think we're missing some things.
1. Why do you think his friends liked you? And what happened that make you think your BF didn't like that? (we'll just call him BF) This sounds like the source of an issue; good to examine.
2. what happened -- immediately before -- him saying he doesn't want a serious relationship? (specifically in the conversation)
It's unlikely a guy would invite you out with his friends with the intention of telling you he doesn't want a serious relationship. (If he was looking for hookup, the invite would be 1on1) I would have to assume something occurred to initiate him saying that. And I'm certainly not suggesting you "did something wrong"; but we might be able to give you some insight on the male psyche, maybe specifically in the group dynamic.