This may sound stupid, but I'm serious
 

I need to figure out what makes a song 'Our song'

If you're married, or in a relationship, could you please tell me what song you and your significant other consider to be 'your song', and how it became 'your song'?

The first place Dustin and I ever went out was to a club. Dustin says the song that was playing the first time we danced, is one that still always makes him think of me, and remember that night.

Would this be considered 'our song', even though we weren't in love at the time?

How do couples determine what 'their song' is?

I mean, I don't think people usually just say, "Hey, let's decide what 'our song' should be"...

The song would have some signifigance.So if he says that when it comes on.That could be both of yours song,for him.But you two should pick out a song together,one you can both agree on. BTW!!!!



I think it's so cute.:p

My wife and I heard that "From This Moment" song every time we turned on the radio together at least three times in a row. It was an odd coincedence that made that song "our" song. With other serious girlfriends we just picked a song we both really liked usually heh.

Cute? EWWWW...lol

Just kidding, thanks :)

Ahh, yeah...That's what I think, that it's probably something that just kinda 'happens', ya know?

Like the first song we danced to...I had mentioned it to him long before we ever went out...He knew I really liked it...Then we get to the club...Hanging out with my friends near the dance floor (I was still introducing him to everyone)...Then voila, that song just happened to start playing.

When I met my wife she was into Disco....i'm talking Village People, Donna Summers, type shit....I was listening to Skynyrd,Zeppelin,Sabbath music.....we never clicked with "our song"

been married 25 years



never needed a song:D

Think mine and my girl's would have to be some random Melvins tune or something...

A song that was playing at an important stage in your relationship. Maybe when you first kissed, first went on your date or first said you love each other. And Yeh, I think Dustin has it right because the song makes him think of you. However, if the song is just a song to you, maybe it shouldn't be your song.

You? Serious? :eek:
Yeah, that does sound stupid...:o


RE: the song thing...never really had one.
We've both got songs we both like, but yknow...can't say
either of us are really traditional romantics...could be why, but
we just tend to overlook traditions like these.

Not saying you should or anything, just stating our case.

My soon to be wife and i consider Love Of My Life by Dave Matthews and Carlos Santana our song