What a crappy day.
 

I had the worst day to day.First I get my hours cut back at work to almost nothing.So I don't know how I'm gonna make my car payments.Then to top it off I find out later that my dad is cheating on my mom.She doesn't know it yet but I'm gonna tell her after I get some more facts.My Mom doesn't deserve this.She's the most kind and caring person in the world.She would do anything for any one and she waits on my dad hand and foot and does whatever he say's.
So I found out where this skank whore bag lives and went and confronted her about it and she acted like she didn't know what I was talking about.But I let her know that I know and she better stay away from my sperm donor piece of shit father.I'm sure after I left she called my dad and told him what happend.Now I waiting to see if he call's me and ask's me about it.I got a feeling the shit's gonna hit the fan tonight and I might go to jail for beating my dad to a pulp.


Sorry to vent on you guy's like this but I just had to get it out.

don't do anything stupid dude, try and let them sort it!

Well dude, that sucks. But if I know anything about life, it has its ups and it has its downs. But the downs have a purpose, to make the ups that much better. I know it sucks now, but it will all work itself out. You may not like the outcome but that happens. The most that you can do is be there for your mother. If you do beat the shit outa your father, he definatly deserves it. But, what you need to do is sit down, and think about what the best action to take for your problems are. Because if you just go at it without thinking, then more than likely its going to end up worse. In the end, its all up to how you react to your problems thats gonna determin wether the outcome will be good or bad.

All in all, I'm sorry to hear about all this, and I hope that everything works out in the good for you and your mother.

Sorry to hear about your troubles, hope everything works out ok in the end.
I think some of us are pretty fortunate in that we have pretty easy lives with no major upsets. I can't say I know how you feel, coz I don't, just guessing.

About 5 years back my brother and I had a major fight. He had a bit of a drink problem which resulted him in becoming very abusive and agressive to the rest of the family. It all came to a head when one New Years' Eve, he and I went for each other - I did't drink that much back then, even less now. Anyway it resulted in me grabbing a kitchen knife and holding it up to my brother's throat. The words I used then are still pretty clear after 5 years, " If I should twitch, you'll be dead, let's hope I don't twitch".

My mother and father where there at the time and had to calm me down. They later told me that they had to forceably remove the knife from my fingers, as my hands where tight shut, with white knuckles showing.

My brother has not touched a drop of alcohol in over 4 years now, and surprisingly or not we actually have sorted out all our differences - I'm even his kids godfather, but it's something that I'm very aware of. To get angry at a stranger is one thing, but to want to kill one of your "own" is not worth thinking about.

You and your mum are the most important one's here, and you'll need every inch of each others' strength to come out of this. Your mum will need you now more than ever as the "man" of the house.


Everyone's here for you.

all the best

Make your own judgements, let things run their course of give your dad what's coming to him. But think of all possible consequences. Your mum doesn't deserve you being in prison either.

Wow...crappy is an understatement.

Gotta agree with Disease. Your mom is going to need you.

I have become more than a little familiar with that empty, hopeless feeling you get in your situation, freak. I found out that my entire family could give or take me, my wife AND my daughter for all they cared. They wouldnt drive 20 minutes out of there way to stop by and say hi, they wanted us to stop by there place so they wouldnt be put out.


This was after we were treated like we werent there and our problems were no big deal a couple of months before. There was rampant flooding all around New Hampshire, and we had to evacuate our house, and I was unemployed. We got no sympathy, no consideration, and we even got shit when we asked if they would help us out and buy us a pack-and-play for the baby since she had nowhere to sleep. I guess holing up your kid and his family for a couple of days should be enough, but damnit if we couldnt fit the baby's crib in the back of a fucking car.

so we found other accomodations right away and left. Turns out that hurt their feelings. Boo fucking hoo.

I havent spoken to my family in over a year, and have been better off for it. You are much better off telling him to stay out of your life than beating him.

Make it good and official, say it in front of people, or in an email, or something traceable. That way, if he decides to try and kiss your ass or harass you, you can get even more satisfaction by suing him for harrasment, or getting a restraining order.

Same goes for your mom. The legal system hurts way more than fists. :)

Coincidentally, I know a kid who's in jail for beating the shit out of his dad. Don't go that route, really.

Ok so me and my dad sat down and had a talk.He did just like I thought he would and denied everything.Said him and this girl where just freinds and tried to act like he was my best buddy.In a way I wanna believe him cause he's my dad, but in another way I dont just casue there's a lot of evidence against him.So for now I'm just going to sit back and wait and see what develops.

Good decision. Be cool, give him a chance, make sure you've got the facts.
And good luck, man, I hope everything works out alright.