Date much?
 

I've become separated from my husband, and lately I've been getting asked out a lot. The problem is every one of the guys who have asked me out are under 23. I'm 28, and the thought of going out with a nineteen year old is just creepy to me. I mean, he can't even get into bars yet.
You guys have any opinions?

Yes. Save yourself for me;)

I bet there's a lotta guys here that are closer to the age you want. Moo ha ha.

LOL you guys rock;)

It's just been a really long time since I had to consider stuff like this, and I'm pretty out of practice. I mean, I know we haven't been split very long, so I should proceed with things slowly and all that stuff. At the same time, sitting around moping isn't going to help me at ALL, and my ex is running around acting like HE'S 20.....why shouldn't I have some fun too? Of course, I don't want to push myself into anything just because I feel I have to compete....it's just one of those difficult situations. I know it's life, I just didn't miss this part of it that much lol.

Ok, I'll give you a serious answer. I don't date people much younger than me. I prefer within a 2yr radius of myself either way, (although I do dig older women)

Oh, and congratulations! You're officially a MILF!:p

Awesome....do I get a t-shirt and a Baskin Robbins coupon?
I like ice cream.

never dated.

i always got to know people informally first.

the idea of a formal date terrifies me - the thought of being trapped with someone for more than 30 minutes who will probably turn out to be a nightmare.

i'm extremely fussy - before i was married (and this includes my wife) i always got to know the person as a good friend before i was willing to spend 'alone time' with them.

i know some people look at it as an exciting way to get to know new people but i dont .. it's like going to a job interview where you know that in 99% of the case - you probablywouldnt even want to work for that company.

and yes, i was like this BEFORE i got old.

I thought before you got old, parents still arranged marriages to help increase the family tracts of land.

I went on dates when I was younger, and it was usually just like you described it, uptight and like an interview. The thought of having to do it now kind of makes me queasy....but at the same time, it could be worse. I have a friend who works for the county, and the majority of guys she ends up dating she meets in the child support recovery office:rolleyes:

she has HUGE ......... tracts of land..

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