beautiful, hot, or cute?
 

girls: would u rather be beautiful, hot or cute?

and guys, which would u prefer ur woman to be?

at least to me the differences are beautiful is more like stunning, hot as like doable, and cute is bubbly. i think cuteness is more a personality trait than look, but there definitely is a cute look, you know, chubby cheeks type shit.

think beautiful:gown, hot:skimpy outfit, cute:dolly dress

for me, id rather be beautiful. i think that hotness (sexlexia) lowers with age however beauty, while it can lessen a bit, stays. also cute, just cuz perky and happy is fun...

FLuff, When it comes to you, you are beatuiful
















































































and bootylicious

how did i nkow u would say that. damnit i forgot to put bootylicoius on the poll o well.

oh i might add... plenty of guys will find girls hot even though they have horse faces just cuz they have a good body

whereas a woman can be beautiful and even be a bit chubby persay, Marilyn monroe, kate winslet for ex..

I'm gonna have to go with cute here.

Combination for me....

Hot i like me a woman with a good figure

Just the kind of sweet answer YOU WOULD give MD2


I would rather be beautiful.........I like classic beauty!

Oh.........and classic beauty lasts a lifetime........even ugly people can be cute.

It seems like hot girls are a dime a dozen (I reckon lol), cute girls you seem to remember. That's the way I am anyway.

Beautiful....one girl called me beautiful on stage once....one of my more feminine days...

Personally...I would rather be intelligent

Well, well, well... What can I say... Not everyone minds the cute type... And the same applies for the hot one... Beautiful, on the other hand, is universal.

By the way... Rayne, the way in which you replied seemed almost spiteful...

I agree with Bloodrayne, I have dated some of all 3 most Hot girls are stupid, cute gets old after a while, and I think all women are beautiful.

What attracted me to my lady besides the fact that she is all 3 is that she is pretty damn smart, After all the hottness, beauty, cuteness wears off you need something to talk about. I think that a woman that has brains is pretty damn sexy. Plus chicks with glasses drive me crazy.LOL

I don't think anyone here was implying that being hot or cute or anything like that is all that matters, or that it is enough, my friend.
Still... Well, it doesn't seem there's anything wrong with being cute, or hot, or beautiful, you know? Of course, if a lady can be one of those AND smart, AND nice, AND sensitive, AND caring etc. etc. etc... :0)... But there's still nothing wrong with being pretty...

ive just come to the conclusion that looks are a lot more important to me

maybe its cuz i have a buncha family all around me that ARENT married that are getting quite old (some gettin almost 50, another is only 24) that are pretty homely lookin and dont appear to ever get married which sucks. i throw in the 'hook it up with him and ill sing at ur wedding deal' and that doesnt even work

anyway for me i want to try and keep up my appearance, try and keep spice in the relatinoship and such. that and i dont want to be on of those women that when i have kids and settle down i let myself go.........

i guess image is important to me, bling bling luxury all that... but thats just me!!

but definitely the dude needs to be smart (street smart, i dont givashit about book smarts), funny, logical etc..

I'm sorry, but that sounds a little shallow, don't you think?

I'm not fussed.... if she grunts in bed then I'm happy

I would have to say cute, but i like the others. My fiance is beautiful, but she has cute down to an artform.


I'll be honest though. I have had some real dogs hold my attention siimply because they had big hooters. My first real girlfriend in high school wa sby no means a looker (baerly qualified as cute. and a mean little bitch), but she had big boobs, and that was all it took.

Yes, I have an issue.:eek:

I prefer knock you off your feet beautiful. It's not really that important compared to intelligence and personality. However, if the chick is ugly as a toad, then it's just not happenning.

I actually answered this with cute. However and therefore hypocritically, I'm not keen on this thread. Plaguewind, to say that Rayne is spiteful is sorta, I don't know, spiteful.

Focus on your looks, Fluff, and live a truly meaningful life...yeah and there's that good ol' beachfront property in the Sahara that's for sale. :rolleyes:

yah.. of course.

not to say there arent other things that i look for.. like i said he needs to be funny and all that. i definitely place personailty above all

but i guess... i dunno, hmmmm. trying to be careful what i say here. basically, want the personailty AND the looks just cuz that keeps you.. interested???? ya ya ill stop there lol

also i have a buncha family like i mentioned earlier that are getting older and will probably never get married. yes looks arent everything but it is pretty noticeable that none of the girls are.. pretty? and the men are a bit fat and such and i really feel bad for them cuz i dont think they will get married. we been tryin to hook em up too but it isnt working.

i think at least in their cases it would be different if they had little groups in HS or college but they didnt. the same is with me, i was always a floater. wel i guess if i were all homely like them then maybei would be alone the rest of my life which would SUCK but i try and keep looks somewhat decent...

and i DONT QUITE understand the hostility im receiving. as if none of you have ever oggled someone or stood in front of the mirror.... ive seen pics of you chicks and several of you take the time to wear make up andi dont...

if she's got big air bags then I'm turned on.

Fluff, I understand what you mean. While looks aren't everything, you're lying to yourself if you say they don't matter. You have to be physically attracted to your mate or it's just NOT going to work, end of story. For the men and women who think otherwise, well, I feel sorry for you. I really do.

Physical attraction is one of the most primal instincts that we have left. To devote yourself to someone that you are not attracted to puts both you and that person in danger of heartbreak. When you do find someone that you are extremely attracted to, the chances are ASTRONOMICALLY higher that you will cheat with them compared to what the chances would be if you were attracted to your mate. Emotional and mental devotion is sometimes NOT enough. Every person alive knows this, whether they want to admit to it or not.

"beauty is in the eye of the beholder"

it all depends. i have known girls that i thought were plain to ugly, but once i knew them, thought they were very attractive. Personality goes a long way. Plus, opinions change.

Back to my hooter statement earlier... There are women that i do not think are pretty at all, ugly even. many of them have shitty personalities to boot, but they have big ones, and that tends to blind me to quite a bit.

I know that this goes for a lot of people who have a fixation on a particular body part. What if a guy is an asshole and ugly, but you are a butt girl and he has a sweet ass?

Shanks and i see eye to ey on this one ;)

I will not make any claims that breast size is the measure of a woman. I have had a couple fo girlfriends with next to nothing, and they were all good for their own reasons, but at the end of the day, if i had a choice of all the women in the world, and had to make a decision based solely on physical attributes, i would pick one with a big chest. And i have, so i win :) (actually, she picked me :D)

yeah agree, a nice big pair of knockers is cool, I must admit, if she was a complete munter, then It may be a turn off even with big boobs,

but then I quite like average to nice looking girls and some average girls can outshine pretty girls with a more outgoing personality, which I like, because I like being around people who are spontanious because i can be rather unspontanious at times.

Exactly. I got REAL lucy in findign everything i like in a woman in a woman who found everythign she likes in me.

Call me wierd, but I actually perfer it when they are a lil chubby like me

That's not weird at all. We need to find people that we feel comfortable with, and are roughly as attractive as we are. In all honesty, I wouldn't exactly be comfortable dating, for example, Christina Ricci because I would be too intimidated. We need the security that goes along with finding someone who is a good match for ourselves in every way, including physically.

Right there with ya, brother. Although i have never really been overwieght (just really out of shape..), bigger girls have what i tend to like, smooth curves. that is not to say there arent skinny women out there i find attractive, they are just rare. I dont necesarrily like fat, just more plus-size.

I really like natural beauty in a woman along with a great personality and being smart and sweet at the same time..And I have found someone who fits all those traits, I guess I am lucky.

And as far as looks goes I love a woman with a nice set of legs and a great ass. If she has legs up to her neck, I want them wrapped around mine...:D

yeah I like this type too, rather like the girl in the pic you posted a while back..

OMFG I bet that chick would knock herself out if she tried to run...LMFAO:D

lol

she can knock me out with her airbags anytime

:D

LMAO those aren't airbags those are funbags:D

Hell yeah!, I could play with them all day and night :D

hmmm...with a big risk of being the party pooper (i love this job) why is it always you who put up these piece of shit posts?

all i am going to say:

Her name is Nadine Jansen (nadine-jansen.de i think), and Shanks lives a hop skip and a jump across the channel from her.

Do as you will :)

she could float over the sea to the Uk with that chest.

:D

Fluffho, I wanted to address your concerns of hostility. I think that women are concerned when their sisters are only concerned with looks. If I'm going to like you, I want to like you for what's on the inside. It's more important to me if you're a kind and considerate person rather than a total hotty. I know it's not important what I think, but you may find that it becomes increasingly important what other women think if you start finding yourself friendless and alone.

I know I'm not a man, but for all women (and guys as well) it's important to have friends that back you up, especially sisters. We're the ones that will hold you and relate to your sorrow, laugh (okay, it's horrible, but even at other people) with you while relating in a gender way. Guy friends are cool, but girl friends can be closer. So what if one of the coolest chicks you meet isn't attractive?

True beauty comes from the heart, and if you'll look then your heart. If you don't find a life mate, don't worry. You can be a strong independant woman standing on your own two feet with a flock of friends, knowing in your own heart that you love and are loved.

Yes, I've oggled what I have thought were attractive men, but my idea of attractive changes with each lover that I've known. "The ocean is full of possibilities."

Look inside, deep inside and find the woman that you truly are. If you don't like her, change her for the better.

You sound like a very lucky guy Kpro....................:D

I just have to say that this thread doesn't bother me.....it is just all in fun...we all know that looks can't sustain any relationship because they are impermanent.........the thrill wears off soon enough and you are left with whatever other connections you have with a person. This has been proven time after time........

Now if the poll would have asked us: Intelligence or beauty........intelligence would have won out for me, as well as inner peace...... Which is the source of all true beauty!

IMO! :D

Beautiful