Originally Posted by Angra (Post 606398)

U think you would be able to reveal a little more about this person and your cryptic past?

Originally Posted by monalisa (Post 606401)

Who is it? PM me or call me if ya want to.

Originally Posted by Angra (Post 606406)

No way.

I don't know you that well. You could be a rapist... :rolleyes:

Originally Posted by jenna26 (Post 606405)

Yeah, there isn't very much to go on is there? :p
Though the word uneasy is telling, usually when I feel uneasy about a person or situation there is a very good reason, and I tend to avoid people that make me feel that way....

Oh hell, I don't know.....I will just say good luck....;)

Originally Posted by monalisa (Post 606407)

You wish! ;) :D

Originally Posted by Dante'sInferno (Post 606427)

She's an ex girl firned.She broke my heart,shes one of the reasons ive been so detached lately and she imed out of the blue.Mona lisa knows her...I dont want to keep any grudges.

Originally Posted by monalisa (Post 606433)

No need to hold grudges, but DON'T forget what she did last time. And personally, I think in this case you should not get involved again. She's just going to suck you in and then hurt ya again as soon as something more interesting comes along. Don't do it buddy! You know better. Think with the head that's between your shoulders!

Originally Posted by Mictlantechutli (Post 606459)

Monalisa's right. Life is too short to hold grudges.

If you like the girl, there's no reason why you can't have a friendship...it might be really cool, but don't get involved again. When things end badly, it's because it wasn't meant to be.

It's tricky territory you are entering and it will certainly require a level of emotional maturity. If you feel you aren't up for it, you might want to (very politely, yet firmly) decline her request to meet.

Good luck.

Originally Posted by jenna26 (Post 606405)

Yeah, there isn't very much to go on is there? :p
Though the word uneasy is telling, usually when I feel uneasy about a person or situation there is a very good reason, and I tend to avoid people that make me feel that way....

Oh hell, I don't know.....I will just say good luck....;)

Originally Posted by Shazbut (Post 606491)

FOLLOW *THIS* ADVICE - GUT INSTINCT IS ALMOST 100% CORRRECT!

Feeling uneasy is your *self* saying _ "keep away", "potentially harming situation*, *manipulative twit deciding they wanna play games with my mind and heart*.

Trust ya gut!

Originally Posted by Dante'sInferno (Post 606671)

HAHAHAHAHA! I can't believe this,she said i missed you soooooooo much,blah blah blah.Hah and as soon as she started to find out i wasnt inerested,she said well i have to go,seeya sweetie.and i said okay.




I just wanted to push her away,so she wont come back,and keep annoying the shit out of me.

Originally Posted by Dante'sInferno (Post 606673)

I know,once it really becomes clesr that i dont want anything to do with her,shell make up some sob story like the one she said.Where she got an car wreck for 5 days and nearly died.....hah.

Originally Posted by Despare (Post 606674)

With some people, it's all a game, you just can't get sucked into playing it with them.

Originally Posted by Dante'sInferno (Post 606675)

I know,the only reason i believe her was because i thought i was in love,but...i wasnt.Just a game she plays.

Originally Posted by Despare (Post 606678)

It's so damn hard to tell sometimes, they say that you'll feel it when you're in love but what if you think you feel it? You have no way of knowing if what you feel is love until it lasts.

Originally Posted by Dante'sInferno (Post 606673)

I know,once it really becomes clear that i dont want anything to do with her,shell make up some sob story like the one she said.Where she got in a car wreck and had to stay at the hospital for 5 days....hah.

Originally Posted by monalisa (Post 606683)

Yah right. If I remember correctly, she said she didn't call you back because she was in the "car wreck" and was in a coma for five days. The she woke up and she could go home the next day. Now I've never been in a coma, but I don't believe that if you're in a coma for five days, that as soon as you wake up they send you home the next day. I've had some pretty elaborate lies told to me before, but that one takes the cake.

Originally Posted by Dante'sInferno (Post 606684)

I didn't know about the whole coma thing,like how long it takes to get out of one.But i know,i believed anything she said.And i paid for it.But it will not happen again.Hell i'll probly never have another girl firiend.

Originally Posted by monalisa (Post 606696)

Haha, oh hon, if you only knew how many times most people have said "I'm never falling in love again, or going out with anyone ever again...". It's part of life. Just try to learn from past mistakes and try not to make them again. No one ever said it was gonna be easy. :) Just keep talking to your friends, we love ya!

Originally Posted by stubbornforgey (Post 606703)

My dearest friend..
Take heed of how badly you were hurt the last time and do you really want to go down that path again.?
Its hard to shut the door on someone who affected you that much..but you are no bodies fool..
once bitten..2wice shy .. :o

Originally Posted by Dante'sInferno (Post 606705)

I know...i should do that,but she'll only come back.So im just going respond being not interested,so shell hopefully be bored and leave me alone.

Originally Posted by monalisa (Post 606709)

Block her, from IM, MySpace, email... if she doesn't get the hint then, just say "LEAVE ME ALONE YOU STUPID SKANK", or something to that effect. :eek: :D

Originally Posted by Dante'sInferno (Post 606711)

Good idea.I shall do that.I hope to god she doesnt make another account and harass me somemore.

Originally Posted by monalisa (Post 606712)

If she does, block her again. "Manipulative bitch" could also work if you don't want to call her a stupid skank, although, that's what I'd call her. ;) :D

Originally Posted by Dante'sInferno (Post 606714)

I did it.Hopefully she'll never contact me again.

Originally Posted by monalisa (Post 606716)

Well if she does, don't fall for it. I don't wanna see you get hurt like she hurt you before. You know who your friends are, don't be afraid to lean on us if ya need. OK?

Originally Posted by Dante'sInferno (Post 606705)

I know...i should do that,but she'll only come back.So im just going respond being not interested,so shell hopefully be bored and leave me alone.

Originally Posted by stubbornforgey (Post 606718)

don't respond at all ..
just by replying ..gives her the satisfaction of thinking
that she may still have a chance.
There is somebody out there for you Dante..
untill i met my soul mate..i too believed i was going to go through
life alone..:p

Originally Posted by Dante'sInferno (Post 606719)

I don't think anyones insane enough for me thats my age.:)







But,i hope your right.

Originally Posted by stubbornforgey (Post 606721)

I know em right..
your an amazing guy,,
the insanity is just an added bonus.. :D