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PR3SSUR3 04-29-2007 06:12 AM

Worrying Censorship Developments At Hdc
 
There suspiciously does not seem to be a straight answer forthcoming in the other threads, so let us ask here:-

Is omcdave banned? If so, on what grounds?

Furthermore, it appears some if not all of his posts have been removed from the forum entirely.

What is the justification for this?

I don't believe this member - unlike some others - was intentionally rude, pornographic or an aggressive troublemaker. He wasn't even sarcastic.

It is generally agreed that some of his posts might have been silly, but then the same goes for many other - unbanned - members of horror.com. Far more offensive and banal entries have been allowed to stay on the forum, and their posters go unchecked.

Is the establishment executing its right to remove (all trace of) any member it deems 'unsuitable' using some dubious excuse of his 'excessive posting' or typing 'not what people want to read'?

If this is the case, it is extremely disappointing from a community which has been known to boast about its diversity, tolerance and broad mindedness when it comes to discussing horror and other subjects.

_____V_____ 04-29-2007 07:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PR3SSUR3 (Post 595876)
There suspiciously does not seem to be a straight answer forthcoming in the other threads, so let us ask here:-

Is omcdave banned? If so, on what grounds?

Furthermore, it appears some if not all of his posts have been removed from the forum entirely.

What is the justification for this?

I don't believe this member - unlike some others - was intentionally rude, pornographic or an aggressive troublemaker. He wasn't even sarcastic.

It is generally agreed that some of his posts might have been silly, but then the same goes for many other - unbanned - members of horror.com. Far more offensive and banal entries have been allowed to stay on the forum, and their posters go unchecked.

Is the establishment executing its right to remove (all trace of) any member it deems 'unsuitable' using some dubious excuse of his 'excessive posting' or typing 'not what people want to read'?

If this is the case, it is extremely disappointing from a community which has been known to boast about its diversity, tolerance and broad mindedness when it comes to discussing horror and other subjects.

I believe more than one complaint was made against him for some of the stuff he had been doing on here and behind the scenes. Also, he and his cohorts have been filling this place with total nonsense since they joined. Till November-December last year, he wasnt posting anywhere else except the General Forum, not to mention opening countless threads of idiocy and filling other threads with stupidity.

When pointed that he wasnt posting anything related to "contribution to horror" by The Flayed One, he started frequenting the Asian movies and Modern movies sections and added some information about Asian stuff. Knowing the fascination us movie-goers have for asian movies these days (since Hollywood has gone drastically down in the Horror genre) he was lauded for it, but actually most of his recommendations were lifted from sites such as upcominghorrormovies.com and hkflix.com et al. (How do I know about it? His posts regarding a particular movie matched the reviews in those sites by other people) I doubt the guy himself took any time out to watch the movies he actually posted about.

And lately he has been doing some stuff which went beyond the transgression of the mods. I am sure if they removed him they had enough evidence and complaints lodged against him, and in subsequent investigations, they found a lot of proof to back those complaints.

Maybe if BR or Zwoti or whoever did the banning clears it up, then everyone would believe it. I am just voicing my thoughts as to what might have happened.

And I applaud the mods for being so tolerant of the fellow and giving him more than one chance to be a good standing and contributing member. Many other excellent members protested and left in disgust, but the mods still let him stay.

It was a severe loss to the forum when so many good contributing members left in protest because their complaints against him werent being heeded upon. Its a classic case of one apple spoiling the whole barrel. I doubt if we will ever get those good members back again.

_____V_____ 04-29-2007 08:47 AM

btw, on the question of why he and others were banned...the answer has been provided by the HDC Mods right here...

http://www.horror.com/forum/showthread.php?t=17292


Scroll down the first post...to the second one added just now.

I think that covers the reason.

Angra 04-29-2007 11:06 AM

Soo...... Enlighten the crowd, please.

bloodrayne 04-29-2007 11:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Angra (Post 595966)
Soo...... Enlighten the crowd, please.

*sigh*...There are reasons why I cannot...It involves MANY other people...People who just want it to go away...It is out of respect for their feelings and wishes that I have been intentionally vague

Just please trust that we don't ban people unjustly, or for any PERSONAL reasons, and leave it at that

AsylumSeeker 04-29-2007 11:18 AM

I'm sorry I've been working 12+ hour days and haven't had a chance to post before this. Dave and company are some strange and scary people who were harassing and freaking out female members. When I came in here brand new and knew absolutely nothing about what was going on and who was who, Dave was very welcoming. I received tons of p.m.s welcoming me and encouraging me to visit "his" J horror board along with a lot telling me who the idiots and jerks were from the old group and how he and his friends were simply being abused for no good reason. I also got them from Trippin, who seemed another very nice and welcoming member. It seemed he doth protest too much about how he was the glue who held this site together, but I honestly thought he and a couple of his cohorts were like that loud, drunk aunt at the wedding who embarasses and annoys everyone, but are basically harmless.

As I was on the site more and more, I noticed that they were simply stirring crap with every member they could. Any, and I do mean ANY, topic was cause for a meeting of the minds with this crew to see how they could agitate. The Yahoo messenger burned alot of bandwidth for them to come up with ways to harass and irritate anyone and everyone, but especially the mods and the people who had been here any length of time. That was their point for being here. Nothing else. It was all about irritating people they felt had wronged them. They would hop on new people after the first post and try to get you to defend them and what wonderful, wronged people they were.

I made the mistake of getting into yahoo with Dave one night when he said he wanted to talk to me about something. He started a multi-chat, pulling in several cohorts whom I had not spoken to on or off the boards. One member activated his webcam on which he, pretty regularly, shows his penis. I was not the first invitee to this little show. Apparently several underage girls who frequented the site had also been invited at one time or another prompting the "why being a pervert pedophile is okay" speech. I believe there were warnings, etc. at that point, to which they took great umbrage. Well, if a 14 year old girl wants to look at a 30-some year old man jerking off, why should HDC care that that's where they were targeted...prudes!! They were pictures of men....err...at the completion stage of....pleasuring themselves being sent around. I declined and logged...fast and left them with the thought that if they sent me a picture of that nature, they had better keep a copy because after what I would do to their testicles, they would need it to remember when their plumbing functioned.

Of course this was followed up with a post on the boards about how much he enjoyed our conversation, then 4 or so p.m.s about how he sincerely hoped I wasn't offended. They are just open minded and a little wierd and like to talk about sex. Since then I haven't been on this site because, frankly, with this bunch of freaks and perverts I figured I would just go gently into that goodnight and say the hell with this place. I mean, between the boards being loaded with them posting the most inane drivel on purpose just to try and ruin the board, what's the use of fighting the uphill battle.

For those that defend Dave and think his posting idiocy is not bannable, think again. How many people who would be good, fun, knowlegeable contributors to this site never even bother to register because a quick trip through the boards is nothing but vapid drivel and constant conversation about why certain people shouldn't get banned? The only reason I made it that far was that it honestly seemed to me that this was not approved of, in general. Do you think that people posting endlessly about how they want to be banned and how they are just assholes, they can't help themselves and they will do it again, is really a good way to attract people you'd ever want to talk to?

In addition, I'm sure I'm not the only one that has been invited to these little parties from here, then harassed here for saying, okay you sick freaks, if you all want to sit around all night and look at each other's schlongs, have a ball, but leave me out of it. I'm pretty sure the mods have a long list. Especially since I didn't even contact the mods.

Censorship sounds very scary and Orwellian and everyone goes into apoplexy about how they are being repressed. What's worse is when you have a small number of people, most who have been banned before (and are exploiting the lack of an ISP block) come back under another name to create trouble and basically kill the board to settle old scores. They were already banned and came right out and said I'm back under another name to cause trouble. Banning is the only possible option.

As for Dave and everyone being against him because he's Korean and can't spell..err...Dave has been in the states his whole life. He graduated from school here and he lives in California. He's just illiterate. I'm sorry, if you can't sing, don't stand up at karaoke and if you can't spell or type coherent sentences, stay off of boards where coherent writing is a prerequisite!!

Angra 04-29-2007 11:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AsylumSeeker (Post 595972)



I made the mistake of getting into yahoo with Dave one night when he said he wanted to talk to me about something. He started a multi-chat, pulling in several cohorts whom I had not spoken to on or off the boards. One member activated his webcam on which he, pretty regularly, shows his penis. I was not the first invitee to this little show. Apparently several underage girls who frequented the site had also been invited at one time or another prompting the "why being a pervert pedophile is okay" speech. I believe there were warnings, etc. at that point, to which they took great umbrage. Well, if a 14 year old girl wants to look at a 30-some year old man jerking off, why should HDC care that that's where they were targeted...prudes!! They were pictures of men....err...at the completion stage of....pleasuring themselves being sent around. I declined and logged...fast and left them with the thought that if they sent me a picture of that nature, they had better keep a copy because after what I would do to their testicles, they would need it to remember when their plumbing functioned.
!!

That's pretty creepy stuff. And a totally different side of Dave than the Dave I knew of.

Wonder if if it's a group of Pedos who's found together here at HDC. Brrrrr.... Scary to think of..

bloodrayne 04-29-2007 11:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AsylumSeeker (Post 595972)
I'm sorry I've been working 12+ hour days and haven't had a chance to post before this. Dave and company are some strange and scary people who were harassing and freaking out female members. When I came in here brand new and knew absolutely nothing about what was going on and who was who, Dave was very welcoming. I received tons of p.m.s welcoming me and encouraging me to visit "his" J horror board along with a lot telling me who the idiots and jerks were from the old group and how he and his friends were simply being abused for no good reason. I also got them from Trippin, who seemed another very nice and welcoming member. It seemed he doth protest too much about how he was the glue who held this site together, but I honestly thought he and a couple of his cohorts were like that loud, drunk aunt at the wedding who embarasses and annoys everyone, but are basically harmless.

As I was on the site more and more, I noticed that they were simply stirring crap with every member they could. Any, and I do mean ANY, topic was cause for a meeting of the minds with this crew to see how they could agitate. The Yahoo messenger burned alot of bandwidth for them to come up with ways to harass and irritate anyone and everyone, but especially the mods and the people who had been here any length of time. That was their point for being here. Nothing else. It was all about irritating people they felt had wronged them. They would hop on new people after the first post and try to get you to defend them and what wonderful, wronged people they were.

I made the mistake of getting into yahoo with Dave one night when he said he wanted to talk to me about something. He started a multi-chat, pulling in several cohorts whom I had not spoken to on or off the boards. One member activated his webcam on which he, pretty regularly, shows his penis. I was not the first invitee to this little show. Apparently several underage girls who frequented the site had also been invited at one time or another prompting the "why being a pervert pedophile is okay" speech. I believe there were warnings, etc. at that point, to which they took great umbrage. Well, if a 14 year old girl wants to look at a 30-some year old man jerking off, why should HDC care that that's where they were targeted...prudes!! They were pictures of men....err...at the completion stage of....pleasuring themselves being sent around. I declined and logged...fast and left them with the thought that if they sent me a picture of that nature, they had better keep a copy because after what I would do to their testicles, they would need it to remember when their plumbing functioned.

Of course this was followed up with a post on the boards about how much he enjoyed our conversation, then 4 or so p.m.s about how he sincerely hoped I wasn't offended. They are just open minded and a little wierd and like to talk about sex. Since then I haven't been on this site because, frankly, with this bunch of freaks and perverts I figured I would just go gently into that goodnight and say the hell with this place. I mean, between the boards being loaded with them posting the most inane drivel on purpose just to try and ruin the board, what's the use of fighting the uphill battle.

For those that defend Dave and think his posting idiocy is not bannable, think again. How many people who would be good, fun, knowlegeable contributors to this site never even bother to register because a quick trip through the boards is nothing but vapid drivel and constant conversation about why certain people shouldn't get banned? The only reason I made it that far was that it honestly seemed to me that this was not approved of, in general. Do you think that people posting endlessly about how they want to be banned and how they are just assholes, they can't help themselves and they will do it again, is really a good way to attract people you'd ever want to talk to?

In addition, I'm sure I'm not the only one that has been invited to these little parties from here, then harassed here for saying, okay you sick freaks, if you all want to sit around all night and look at each other's schlongs, have a ball, but leave me out of it. I'm pretty sure the mods have a long list. Especially since I didn't even contact the mods.

Censorship sounds very scary and Orwellian and everyone goes into apoplexy about how they are being repressed. What's worse is when you have a small number of people, most who have been banned before (and are exploiting the lack of an ISP block) come back under another name to create trouble and basically kill the board to settle old scores. They were already banned and came right out and said I'm back under another name to cause trouble. Banning is the only possible option.

As for Dave and everyone being against him because he's Korean and can't spell..err...Dave has been in the states his whole life. He graduated from school here and he lives in California. He's just illiterate. I'm sorry, if you can't sing, don't stand up at karaoke and if you can't spell or type coherent sentences, stay off of boards where coherent writing is a prerequisite!!

Thank you for that...I know it wasn't easy...Just be assured that you are far from the only one, and you did nothing wrong

Just be glad that you weren't one of those little girls...2 of them were 13 years old...At least of the ones WE know about

Angra 04-29-2007 11:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bloodrayne (Post 595983)
Thank you for that...I know it wasn't easy...Just be assured that you are far from the only one, and you did nothing wrong

Just be glad that you weren't one of those little girls


So anything new about the IP banning?

AsylumSeeker 04-29-2007 11:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Angra (Post 595982)
That's pretty creepy stuff. And a totally different side of Dave than the Dave I knew of.

Wonder if if it's a group of Pedos who's found together here at HDC. Brrrrr.... Scary to think of..

Exactly. That's why I posted this. I mean, I'm an idiot for ever having talked to them. I'm a grown woman and dealt with it. The mods, however, can't come out and say alot of things that I'm sure have been reported to them because they are protecting the people who have had to deal with this junk. They have to protect people from this crap without divulging the details. It's unfair and insulting for people to run around second guessing their actions when they have ZERO information on the majority of what's going on. Either trust that the mods would have gotten rid of this lot a long time ago if they were the type to abuse power over a personality conflict and that to do so at this late date is a sign there is more than meets the eye or go somewhere else, but don't give them what they want by ruining the board in their stead.

bloodrayne 04-29-2007 11:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Angra (Post 595985)
So anything new about the IP banning?

Sorry Sweetheart...He hasn't gotten back to us

paws the great 04-29-2007 11:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AsylumSeeker (Post 595972)

I made the mistake of getting into yahoo with Dave one night when he said he wanted to talk to me about something. He started a multi-chat, pulling in several cohorts whom I had not spoken to on or off the boards. One member activated his webcam on which he, pretty regularly, shows his penis. I was not the first invitee to this little show. Apparently several underage girls who frequented the site had also been invited at one time or another prompting the "why being a pervert pedophile is okay" speech. I believe there were warnings, etc. at that point, to which they took great umbrage. Well, if a 14 year old girl wants to look at a 30-some year old man jerking off, why should HDC care that that's where they were targeted...prudes!! They were pictures of men....err...at the completion stage of....pleasuring themselves being sent around. I declined and logged...fast and left them with the thought that if they sent me a picture of that nature, they had better keep a copy because after what I would do to their testicles, they would need it to remember when their plumbing functioned.

Of course this was followed up with a post on the boards about how much he enjoyed our conversation, then 4 or so p.m.s about how he sincerely hoped I wasn't offended. They are just open minded and a little wierd and like to talk about sex. Since then I haven't been on this site because, frankly, with this bunch of freaks and perverts I figured I would just go gently into that goodnight and say the hell with this place. I mean, between the boards being loaded with them posting the most inane drivel on purpose just to try and ruin the board, what's the use of fighting the uphill battle.

Everyone here should have been WARNED about this kind of crap!:mad:

Angra 04-29-2007 11:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bloodrayne (Post 595993)
Sorry Sweetheart...He hasn't gotten back to us


Well, if he hasn't dropped dead for some reason, he can't say no to your IP suggestion. Not now.

But what he might do instead is closing down the entire forum. :rolleyes:

AsylumSeeker 04-29-2007 11:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by paws the great (Post 596002)
Everyone here should have been WARNED about this kind of crap!:mad:


Well blame me, not the mods. I didn't tell them so they couldn't have done anything about it. There's also the level of who flung what and hearsay. Of course, after multiple people report, the preponderance of the evidence leans towards the fact that they are freaks. They took action as soon as they could, I'm sure.

bwind22 04-29-2007 11:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Angra (Post 596005)
Well, if he hasn't dropped dead for some reason, he can't say no to your IP suggestion. Not now.

But what he might do instead is closing down the entire forum. :rolleyes:

I doubt that. A forum is basically an expected part of any web community nowadays.

Angra 04-29-2007 11:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bwind22 (Post 596007)
I doubt that. A forum is basically an expected part of any web community nowadays.



That may be. But who needs a pedo infested forum?

bloodrayne 04-29-2007 11:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by paws the great (Post 596002)
Everyone here should have been WARNED about this kind of crap!:mad:

We had no one who was willing to come forward and give proof, and we definitely weren't going to pressure them to...Most of these people are 13-16 year-old girls who were hurt, confused and terribly embarrassed...You have to understand that...

So...We just waited until we had a reason that you guys could understand...Dave kept within the lines on the forum, always sprouting sunshine, when behind the scenes he was spewing his hatred...He kept from giving us a clear definable reason for banning him that could be easily explained to the forum...He played a very good game

We COULD have taken him out at ANY time and just told you guys that it was none of your business, or just not responded to the forum's questions AT ALL...But...We don't do that here...We're always honest with you guys and we respect the wishes of the forum as a WHOLE...Majority rules

slayer666 04-29-2007 12:00 PM

Bloodrayne and other mods, as far as I'm concerned, you should ban whoever you want. You don't need to make it into a legal case. Yours is the responsibility to keep this place functioning reasonably well. If we don't like it, we can leave. Ban whoever you want for whatever reason, and feel no need to explain yourself or grant due process. Those who can't stay on topic (i.e., horror) here can always find a more general forum on which to discuss whatever they want.

paws the great 04-29-2007 12:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bloodrayne (Post 596014)
We had no one who was willing to come forward and give proof, and we definitely weren't going to pressure them to...Most of these people are 13-16 year-old girls who were hurt, confused and terribly embarrassed...You have to understand that...

So...We just waited until we had a reason that you guys could understand...Dave kept within the lines on the forum, always sprouting sunshine, when behind the scenes he was spewing his hatred...He kept from giving us a clear definable reason for banning him that could be easily explained to the forum...He played a very good game

Well,I just hope he never comes back to HDC!


It's sad....I thought he was a nice guy!:mad:

bloodrayne 04-29-2007 12:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Angra (Post 596013)
That may be. But who needs a pedo infested forum?

I just wanted to take a minute to point something out here...

What happened here is NOT exclusive to HDC...These people are EVERYWHERE on the internet, and in your neighborhoods

I urge all of you kids to PLEASE, please be careful...And NEVER show naked pictures of yourself to ANYONE...When someone asks you to turn on your webcam for them...Especially 30 year-old men...Just DON'T


You guys have no idea how many young girls have been affected by this...At this forum alone

As well as at least 4 grown women who will never come back to this forum...All good people...And like I said...Those are only the ones that we KNOW about

bloodrayne 04-29-2007 12:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by paws the great (Post 596035)
It's sad....I thought he was a nice guy!:mad:

Yeah...That's how they get away with it...And they are major liars...They kinda have to be

the_real_linda 04-29-2007 12:24 PM

omg......i knew none of that and ive only just read all the posts on this thread now....im speechless....he always seemed really friendly.....guess u can never tell.....:mad:

the_real_linda 04-29-2007 12:33 PM

im still shocked cause i remember him wanting to chat on yahoo but i only use msn and im so glad i didnt....im baffled by it all and really creeped out that ive been pm with him for so long and didnt know this.......thank you mods

Zero 04-29-2007 02:48 PM

well - i for one appreciate knowing the darker news from behind the scenes. as usual i am oblivious to these things (blessedly and thankfully). now its time to get back to business as usual


although i do have a problem with one of BR's mandates


Quote:

Originally Posted by bloodrayne (Post 596037)
IAnd NEVER show naked pictures of yourself to ANYONE...


I refuse to be cowed by her dominating (or is that dominatrix) ways and post this in full defiance of her authority!:







http://i134.photobucket.com/albums/q...monkeymoon.jpg

X¤MurderDoll¤X 04-29-2007 02:51 PM

I love being right ALL THE TIME

PR3SSUR3 04-29-2007 05:12 PM

Well... alarming stuff to say the least.

You of course have to be careful of directing words like paedophile around the internet because of slander and defamation. It was a little unclear from AsylumSeeker's post the level of Dave's involvement in any unappropriate behaviour with minors, but I think it's fair to say that with his alleged harassment PMs and apparently dubious agendas for 'chatting' that he had become a prominent but increasingly undesirable member of this forum. He used to PM me a lot as well, but nothing sexual... honest. :D

chaibill 04-29-2007 06:09 PM

well that was alot of info
me being new didn't know all that was going on i got some pm's from dave but only about movies
not really a pedifile though that term is used alot but if you take a psych 101 class you would know the pedifile is when they like the boys and girls before they are developed so 14 year old girls would not fall into that catagory more like predater. unless this term has become broader in recient years. not that that makes it ok

he was always nice to me never had any idea something else was going on

also would like to apologize to any one offened by my posts and threads about this banning didn't know enough info and i hope that the people effected stay here or return to HDC
also if it hasn't been done already the threads i started about bring him back could be deleted
thank you

_____V_____ 04-29-2007 09:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AsylumSeeker (Post 595972)
I'm sorry I've been working 12+ hour days and haven't had a chance to post before this. Dave and company are some strange and scary people who were harassing and freaking out female members. When I came in here brand new and knew absolutely nothing about what was going on and who was who, Dave was very welcoming. I received tons of p.m.s welcoming me and encouraging me to visit "his" J horror board along with a lot telling me who the idiots and jerks were from the old group and how he and his friends were simply being abused for no good reason. I also got them from Trippin, who seemed another very nice and welcoming member. It seemed he doth protest too much about how he was the glue who held this site together, but I honestly thought he and a couple of his cohorts were like that loud, drunk aunt at the wedding who embarasses and annoys everyone, but are basically harmless.

As I was on the site more and more, I noticed that they were simply stirring crap with every member they could. Any, and I do mean ANY, topic was cause for a meeting of the minds with this crew to see how they could agitate. The Yahoo messenger burned alot of bandwidth for them to come up with ways to harass and irritate anyone and everyone, but especially the mods and the people who had been here any length of time. That was their point for being here. Nothing else. It was all about irritating people they felt had wronged them. They would hop on new people after the first post and try to get you to defend them and what wonderful, wronged people they were.

I made the mistake of getting into yahoo with Dave one night when he said he wanted to talk to me about something. He started a multi-chat, pulling in several cohorts whom I had not spoken to on or off the boards. One member activated his webcam on which he, pretty regularly, shows his penis. I was not the first invitee to this little show. Apparently several underage girls who frequented the site had also been invited at one time or another prompting the "why being a pervert pedophile is okay" speech. I believe there were warnings, etc. at that point, to which they took great umbrage. Well, if a 14 year old girl wants to look at a 30-some year old man jerking off, why should HDC care that that's where they were targeted...prudes!! They were pictures of men....err...at the completion stage of....pleasuring themselves being sent around. I declined and logged...fast and left them with the thought that if they sent me a picture of that nature, they had better keep a copy because after what I would do to their testicles, they would need it to remember when their plumbing functioned.

Of course this was followed up with a post on the boards about how much he enjoyed our conversation, then 4 or so p.m.s about how he sincerely hoped I wasn't offended. They are just open minded and a little wierd and like to talk about sex. Since then I haven't been on this site because, frankly, with this bunch of freaks and perverts I figured I would just go gently into that goodnight and say the hell with this place. I mean, between the boards being loaded with them posting the most inane drivel on purpose just to try and ruin the board, what's the use of fighting the uphill battle.

For those that defend Dave and think his posting idiocy is not bannable, think again. How many people who would be good, fun, knowlegeable contributors to this site never even bother to register because a quick trip through the boards is nothing but vapid drivel and constant conversation about why certain people shouldn't get banned? The only reason I made it that far was that it honestly seemed to me that this was not approved of, in general. Do you think that people posting endlessly about how they want to be banned and how they are just assholes, they can't help themselves and they will do it again, is really a good way to attract people you'd ever want to talk to?

In addition, I'm sure I'm not the only one that has been invited to these little parties from here, then harassed here for saying, okay you sick freaks, if you all want to sit around all night and look at each other's schlongs, have a ball, but leave me out of it. I'm pretty sure the mods have a long list. Especially since I didn't even contact the mods.

Censorship sounds very scary and Orwellian and everyone goes into apoplexy about how they are being repressed. What's worse is when you have a small number of people, most who have been banned before (and are exploiting the lack of an ISP block) come back under another name to create trouble and basically kill the board to settle old scores. They were already banned and came right out and said I'm back under another name to cause trouble. Banning is the only possible option.

As for Dave and everyone being against him because he's Korean and can't spell..err...Dave has been in the states his whole life. He graduated from school here and he lives in California. He's just illiterate. I'm sorry, if you can't sing, don't stand up at karaoke and if you can't spell or type coherent sentences, stay off of boards where coherent writing is a prerequisite!!

It took a lot for you to come forward with this, Asylum, and I am truly appreciative of you informing the others about exactly what happened. If its of any consolation you werent the only 1 who was affected by that group. Next time if any of this happens, I urge you and others like you, to come forward and report it to the Mods. In BR and Zwoti we got 2 of the best...not only mods but like older members of the family who will listen to you and will take action. I hope Asylum's post is an eye-opener for all the affected others, and for the Dave & his cohorts supporters too.

We lot here at HDC are a great community, and some of the older members who have left are some of the best informed critics of the horror genre you would find anywhere in the world, much less on the Net. I have come to learn a lot from em and I miss their inputs now.

But still we have a core group which are very informative about anything and everything. Sure we do have our goofy and angry moments, but still we lot have stuck together through shitstorms like this before. Like we have survived this ordeal, we have survived others before this.

I can vouch for the core group and myself, that you wont go through such sickening stuff from any of us. Lets work together in re-building the site all over again, so that when a new horror fan registers, he can expect a lot of positivism from this place, and get it equally too.

Welcome to HDC. And I hope you love your stay here.:)


(btw...what was your yahoo name again?...j/k...:D )

stubbornforgey 04-29-2007 09:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by _____V_____ (Post 596319)
It took a lot for you to come forward with this, Asylum, and I am truly appreciative of you informing the others about exactly what happened. If its of any consolation you werent the only 1 who was affected by that group. Next time if any of this happens, I urge you and others like you, to come forward and report it to the Mods. In BR and Zwoti we got 2 of the best...not only mods but like older members of the family who will listen to you and will take action. I hope Asylum's post is an eye-opener for all the affected others, and for the Dave & his cohorts supporters too.

We lot here at HDC are a great community, and some of the older members who have left are some of the best informed critics of the horror genre you would find anywhere in the world, much less on the Net. I have come to learn a lot from em and I miss their inputs now.

But still we have a core group which are very informative about anything and everything. Sure we do have our goofy and angry moments, but still we lot stick together through a lot. Like we have survived this ordeal, we have survived others before this.

I can vouch for the core group and myself, that you wont go through such sickening stuff from any of us. Lets work together in re-building the site all over again, so that when a new horror fan registers, he can expect a lot of positivism from this place, and get it equally too.

Welcome to HDC. And I hope you love your stay here.:)


(btw...what was your yahoo name again?...j/k...:D )

Nicely put..


'throws away her mighty mouse outfit'..

no more standing up for the down trodden.'

so far the 2 i have tried to defend have proven me to be wrong'..

'shakes her fist'..one day i swear.i will get it right :o

swiss tony 04-30-2007 01:28 AM

i just logged on after about a couple of weeks of relative inactivity on this site to find this thread. HOLY FUCKING SHIT!!!!! absolutely appalling stuff. for the record, dave PMed me about horror, asian in particular, and was incredibly friendly and welcoming from day one and never behaved in an inappropriate manner. but then, i'm not a teenage girl. on dave's HDC friends thread he started recently he refered to me as someone he liked and i don't think i took the time to respond, thankfully. i hope no one, particularlyBR and zwoti, lumps me in with that crowd. i had no idea. i just thought he was a talkative fella with too much time on his hands but...HOLY FUCKING SHIT!!!
i think a lot of people will be feeling the same as myself; that someone we were semi friends with has pulled the wool over our eyes. the funny thing is, like chaibill, when i started reading this thread, before i got to asylums post, i was mentally preparing a defense i was gonna post for dave. BR is quite right in what she says about him playing a good game. he had me fooled. finally, good job asylum seeker and the others that were brave enough to come forward. although, i do think the idea of making this a sticky as a warning to others will do more to advertise our beloved site as the haunt of paedos. the mods are doing a great job watching over the place as it is.

AmericanManiac 04-30-2007 03:41 AM

My opinion on this situation, well it is really disturbing. He seemed like a nice guy to me, like someone said you can never tell. It did take a lot of guts for one the victims to speek out, and for that you deserve respect, thank you for informing us, and from me well i'm sorry that you had to go through that, nobody should.

bleeding_angelgirl 04-30-2007 05:50 AM

I am truly amazed by all the stuff i have heard, im an idiot and need to start being more carful. I apoligize for defending him at all, for being ignorent and not trusting other people who were warning me. Some times I guess im to trusting and to open and I think I need to change that for now on, it makes me to easy of a target. I thank every one who has put up with my ignorance and minor immaturety, maybe not even minor. truthfuly as much as I might complain, the mods here have been great to me and helped me out alote and even mebers who are difrent then me and started out not liking me have been good to me, i need to stop being ignorent and trusting, and chose who i talk to in some ways more carfully, I oviously have alote more to learn here then just spelling

Marley's Ghost 04-30-2007 07:35 AM

We've Won Another Battle
To The Victor Goes The Spoils
Sleazy Internet Predator's Plans
Did Our Mod's So Rightly Foil

We Took Many Casualties
Lost Many A Good Friend
But Our Fight Wil Continue
Until This Pestilence Surely Ends

The Likes Of Dave And His Cohorts
Are Many, I'm Sad To Say
We Must Stand Tall And Live
To Fight Another Day

Let's Pay Respect To The One's We Lost
Urge,return,ia75 And Many Others
Here's Hoping They Find Their Way Back
You Will Be Missed, Our Fallen Brothers

Concerning Members Creating Aliases
I Obviously Have No Problem With That
When Used To Thwart The Bad Guys
There's Many Ways To Skn A Cat

Many Battles Have Been Won Using Espionage
Its A Fact Thats Been Proven By History
Besides This Is A Horror Forum, Is It Not
And Who Doesn't Like A Fun Little Mystery

So Preys Efforts Shouldn,t Be Condemned
This Brave Soldier Should Be Rewarded
And Posher's Bold Fight With The Enemy
Should Also Be Applauded

Our Sisters Hurt In This Battle
Must Know That Its A Priority
To Rid Our Corner Of The Internet
Of These Fucking Freaks Of Society

So We All Should Work Together
And Report Such Atrocious Actions
The Mods Will Do Their Best
And Perform A Pervert Extraction

bloodrayne 04-30-2007 09:50 AM

Come on guys, we can still play around...


It's perfectly understandable for us to be sensitive, and a bit cautious after what has just happened...But, sometimes a little levity helps to bring us back to normal (well, HDC normal)...We can't allow what has happened to change the entire tone of our forum and how we respond to each other

Like putting a pair of sunglasses on a dead possum and sticking a cigarette in its mouth to try to make it a little less 'ugly'...Gross? Yeah...In poor taste?...Most likely...Sinister/Harmful?...No, not really


We need to be aware of what's going on around us so that things like this don't happen again...But, we should not have to walk on eggshells

Papillon Noir 04-30-2007 10:09 AM

Wow! A lot has happened here since last week. It really shows that anybody can have a dark side and not all villains (or in this case sexual predators) are easily marked by black mustaches curled in their fingers, black top hats, and tying women to railroad tracks.

I'd like to thank Asylum for coming forward and sharing her experience and letting us all know part of what was really going on. I'd also like to share a conversation that I had with Tripp a few months back and that I think his behavior then relates to what was going on.

When I was new here he had PMed my me about my user name and had invited me to talk with him on yahoo messenger about movies. So I did and the conversation went quickly to flirting with me and sending me pictures of himself (just his face, nothing sexual) and wanting to see pics of me.

Well I told him I had nothing to send him so he asked me if I had a boyfriend and I said yes. I asked if he had a girlfriend and he said no, not really. I told him that that was usually a yes or no question and he said he sort of had a loose long distance relationship. I asked if she was in the military or something and he said no that she lived in Indiana and was 20 and a virgin and that they were engaged to be married and he was totally in love with this girl! If you had a fiancee they are usually not referred to as a loose long distance relationship in the very last preceding line in the IM.

Needless to say the conversation ended after that, which was my first and last with him. Now this conversation doesn't seem to completely cross the line, but after hearing why these people got banned, I can see where this conversation could have quickly gone and follows in line with that type of behavior. I just thought you all might want to know.

bleeding_angelgirl 04-30-2007 10:17 AM

its just creeeps me out a little now, sorry. but br is right time to play nice now that the pervert is gone but , i still have the willies from dave and smacking my self for it

bloody_ribcut 04-30-2007 10:26 AM

dave is a piece of shit..............

_____V_____ 04-30-2007 11:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Papillon Noir (Post 596541)
Wow! A lot has happened here since last week. It really shows that anybody can have a dark side and not all villains (or in this case sexual predators) are easily marked by black mustaches curled in their fingers, black top hats, and tying women to railroad tracks.

I'd like to thank Asylum for coming forward and sharing her experience and letting us all know part of what was really going on. I'd also like to share a conversation that I had with Tripp a few months back and that I think his behavior then relates to what was going on.

When I was new here he had PMed my me about my user name and had invited me to talk with him on yahoo messenger about movies. So I did and the conversation went quickly to flirting with me and sending me pictures of himself (just his face, nothing sexual) and wanting to see pics of me.

Well I told him I had nothing to send him so he asked me if I had a boyfriend and I said yes. I asked if he had a girlfriend and he said no, not really. I told him that that was usually a yes or no question and he said he sort of had a loose long distance relationship. I asked if she was in the military or something and he said no that she lived in Indiana and was 20 and a virgin and that they were engaged to be married and he was totally in love with this girl! If you had a fiancee they are usually not referred to as a loose long distance relationship in the very last preceding line in the IM.

Needless to say the conversation ended after that, which was my first and last with him. Now this conversation doesn't seem to completely cross the line, but after hearing why these people got banned, I can see where this conversation could have quickly gone and follows in line with that type of behavior. I just thought you all might want to know.

You do realise most of what Trippin told you were blatant lies? He was just coming on to you, and would have followed it with "heart break over a break up" then the proposal, and the next step would have been...you know what.

btw...nice avatar.

ferretchucker 04-30-2007 11:39 AM

wait...can someone please explain to me the reason. Was it that thing that he did to asylum? I've looked through this thread and haven't found the precise answer. Can someone point me in the right direction?

bloody_ribcut 04-30-2007 11:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ferretchucker (Post 596582)
wait...can someone please explain to me the reason. Was it that thing that he did to asylum? I've looked through this thread and haven't found the precise answer. Can someone point me in the right direction?

he was a fukkin child molester!!
or something like that.


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