*Sigh*
 

I never thought it would come to an end, but alas, it has. Tommorow at 6PM EST, my girlfriend will be leaving to go back home to Germany. :( Now I really have nothing left to do except work my ass off everyday I can to get enough money to go see her.

It's funny, sometimes, you don't realize how much you love someone or something until you know that it's not going to be there anymore. And I just learned that tonight. Hell, I usually don't shed a tear over anything. Not funerals, not pain, nothing. But my eyes were soaked tonight. I've been with her for 8 Months now this Thursday.

This has been the best year of my life despite her having to leave. But I'm really not alone as long as I have my memories and know that she's still there.

Oh, and by the way, you will be welcoming her soon on here. She is going to sign up when she gets home and be a new resident in the HDC family.

Over and Out.

i can relate to this thread..
its sucky huh V.C :(

My plans to be in egypt to marry my silly guy in feb
had to be changed cos of a fucked up piece of paper.
All of our plans had to be put on hold untill a replacement
is found for me..so i can be released from my contract..
otherwise...em not going anywhere till May now..
so heartbreaking..especially after our hopes were so high
we are both so damned miserable..'sigh'...

Aw man...this thread just makes me wanna beatbox.

won't that give you hairy palms??? :D

Yeah it is. :(

When you care about something that much, and then it's just taken away from you. It just hurts more than anything for some reason.

That sucks. What kind of paper would prevent them from letting you go? :(

:confused:

@OMC
Thanks man, and I'm probably going to be around more now.

At least you can plan a sweet trip to Germany!!! It sucks when people move away, seemed when I was younger all my friends always moved away. Just make sure you keep in touch cause it sucks when you lose touch all together. I just back in touch with my bestest friend ever, we hadn't been in touch for 10 years!!!

What part of Germany?
Save save save, man. Not only are good relationships worth just about anything, but Germany is a worthwile visit. i live dthere for 9 years total in my life and i loved it. Especially the south.

its ok vamp i am here for u.

contract with the govt.. education dept snr teaching rep..(for the papakura disctrict)
i still have another 6 months..
em getting plenty of help from the sector in the hope of resolving
the issue.right down to the minister..
just a waiting game now.

We have a similar situation indeed. I can't go see her for 6 months at least. :(

new years eve
lets you and me sit in here and get drunk on ginger beer and drown our sorrows

lets call it morbid eve :(

I'm in for it. All I'm going to have to do on New Years is sit at my computer or something. :(

I´ll be 6 hours ahead of you. HA!!



.... :(

yep, and me too :(

at least i'll know there's gonna be good company :)

Yup!


We could bump the monopoly thread and get a party started. :cool:

so sorry VC, not being with the ones you love is one of the worst feelings. *hugs*

I'll bring drinks http://i98.photobucket.com/albums/l2...k_2/drink1.gif

yups..thats us..
i'll bring tayta chips n pizza :(

And i´ll bring the condoms... yes i´m nasty.. :cool:

I have a great joke but I don't want to sound callous.

Riiiight.... Coz that´s not your style.. :rolleyes:

what will her screen name be. I'm sure we'll all be friends again. I havent spoken to you since you were talking about the girls staring at you when she took you out to a mall but i still feel for you. And atleast you know that she'll be having a great time!:o

I'm not sure what she's going to be yet. She hasn't said.

And as far as her having a great time....That's what I'm worried about. :eek:

Man, I know how you feel. Im in a long-distance relationship myself, albiet nowhere near as long distance as yours.

It's hard, but you appreciate that little time that you have together so much more than if you got to see her everyday. Thats how I look at it.

I'm a firm disbeliever of long distance relationships.

I was too untill i met my silly egyptian..
in fact i was a disbeliever in a lot of things.
Its ironic that my soul mate in everything just happens to live
15000 miles away..
he's funny..he's cute...he's fuckin smartass...
n talk about out stubborn me by miles..
To say I love him would be an understatement of the century.
if you could find somebody that loves you as much as you love him/her
it doesn't matter how far away they are..
its whats in the heart that matters.

I believed that too..... once..

So, did she get deported or what?


And seriously, is anyone seriously going to be in here on New Years eve? That is a waste, it's the best party night of the year, I'm going to be in Fiji for it this year.

No...Her dad that she was going to live with, well....nevermind. She started living with her grandmother, but now she's going back home to live with her mom.

And yes, 99.9% sure I will be here on New Years.

@Return
It's not really a matter of how far. I'm sure it's the same for both of us. Whether it's 50 miles of 50,000 miles, it's still hard. And that's true, you do tend to appreciate it more.

As someone who suffered a couple of bad long-D relationships, but turned the most recent one into a great marriage (almost 10 years and 2 cool kids) please take this little bit of advice.

Sure you get a grieving time - this is traumatic - but the worst thing you can do is pine for what once was. If you want to go back to how it was before, you'll never move forward.

Accept the situation for what it is (after a certain period of adjustment) and allow the relationship to evolve into whatever it has to be to survive. But keep the presseure off yourself and her to re-capture the fleeting sensation of falling in love with her.

Being in love and growing in love will never feel quite like falling in love, so don't expect it too.

Sorry if that came out preachy, I just feel for you and have too much experience in this realm.

Thanks man, and I will take your advice. And what you say is true. Memories are memories and will never be anything more. You can't relive the past, and you can't erase the ones you don't like.

I'm doing my best to be happy and laugh and smile, but all the while, deep down, it's still that lingering energy that makes me sad.

This is an open invitation for morbid ppl only..
no happiness allowed ok :o

if you come in and cheer happy new years..
your gonna get a sparkler straight up ure ass..
well alight..' :D

:D I have 50 boxes of sparklers!:eek:

she's got a ticket to ride, hu.

look at it this way. You will know that you have someone out there, thinking of you, loving you, waiting there for you. Thats soo much better than having nobody at all. Trust me. I havent had somebody since my last pity date. It always turns out well in the end. If you think positive, life will be positive. Oh and yes, that is me.:p http://i130.photobucket.com/albums/p...cker/smile.jpg

LOL..your cute :D

I will never regret what em going through now..
not in a million years..'sigh' :o

I'm also very deranged and like getting high on chocolate and sugar paper. The teddy bear head is called Cochita Cochada. He is a god i discovered and with him i founded the religion Cochudaism. I currently have 53 followers and we basically worship horror movies, rock music, long hair and beer.
http://i130.photobucket.com/albums/p...cker/smoka.jpg
http://i130.photobucket.com/albums/p...ker/gojita.jpg

LOL i love that picture with the teddy bear head. lol it is funny.

You what happens to founders of religions don't you?