Not old, but too old to be in the club
 

I have been on horror,com a year today so as a treat heres a random thread. :cool:

… Is there an age at which you’re over the hill to be in a bar / club, or at least certain kinds of bars / clubs or is age just a state of mind?

im not sure theres a certain age, but i know theres a certain look

if u look too old, dont go. no for real, too homely, too ugly, too trashy. just stay home

unles of course its a ugly, homely, trashy club. but what im sayin, is some 30 yr olds look 30, some look 20, then some look striaght up 40. so yeh, its more like what age you LOOK than what ur age really is

so maybe im superficial, whatever, but it just looks odd having some fogeys rockin with the youngins. i know i dont want to talk to them.

HAHAH, suck!

Is it worse to see old men in the club or old women or do you get put off by both Gren?

iono. its hard to say. im only 20 and most the clubs are 21+. i go down to TJ (i forget im one of the only ones in CA, TJ is Tijuana, Mexico) and yeh, no oldies there

but i think id hafto say the old women. why? cuz normally men dress properly, whereas women like to think they are young and will dress so, even though they got lotsa.......

ya know. gross stuff

:(.

i think you'd first have to ask yourself why you're there ..

Personally i only ever go to see live bands - and thats never a problem ..

the other places .. i dont know what i'd be doing in them ..i'd be bored out of my skull

mingle, dance, freak....

:)

For me 25 was when i started getting out of touch with what was current, i.e) music, clothes etc, social life in general...Ironically this was when i had my oldest daughter, lol.

Like urgeok, I go to clubs for the live music. My brother's son plays drums in a local band and I'm always going to the shows. Its mostly a young crowd but I'm at an age where I really don't give a shit what anybody thinks about me. Besides I really like the music. Times are a bit different now.When I was in my 20s you would never see anybody our parents age at the clubs, but I grew up on rock & roll and I still like it.

I guess what I'm saying is it depends what your going to the clubs for. If I was a forty something year old looking to pick up hot young chicks........heehee...that made even me laugh...then maybe I would look a bit pathetic, but I'm a happily married forty something year old just there for the tunes.
Plus the fact that the wife is usually with me......the beeotch is cramping my style...how am I suppose to score.:cool:

Happy anniversary feral.

This was a spiderweb for me...I had to answer...


Hmm...Let's see...

Kim is 54 years old:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v6...Rayne/Kim1.jpg


Christoph is 40 years old:
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v6...Christoph1.jpg


You all know Sergio, he is 33 years old...I am 36 years old...We all hang out at the same clubs...The people we hang out with are 19-54 (Kim is the oldest person I know), with the MAJORITY of people being between 30 and 40.....We all have a good time...Age is irrelevant....You don't have to be any certain age to hang out with friends and have fun...The main reason we go is just to get together, dance, see the bands, and laugh:)

HAHA...I had to comment on THIS, too..........Kim's girlfriend is 28...Christoph's girlfriend is 22...Sergio's girlfriend is 18...and my guy is 20...

We don't feel 'pathetic' AT ALL...In fact...We're all VERY happy ;) :p


Age is irrelevant

'Going to the club' sucks ass!

Going to a bar, or going to a concert is different. Those are fun for all ages.

When I think of going to a 'club', I picture, the shallowest environment possible, a dance club. Loud (extremely gay) music, trendy nose-in-the-air Barbie doll sluts, muscle bound meatheads looking for their next daterape victim and of course some queer ass DJ talking about the drink specials every 5 minutes... All in an environment that is too loud to be able to hear the person next to you well enough to carry on a decent conversation.


Concerts and bars are essentially ageless to me and I will probably be going to both until I'm old and gray. Dance clubs, on the other hand, suck. They are just teenage-twentysomething meat markets (and because it's too damn loud to talk to each other,) everything gets based on looks. :rolleyes:

On any given night, there's about a million things I would rather be doing than going to a club.

Good point...I'm 22 next month, and I don't really party at all, even though now is the time I should be. I'm saving it up for my forties

WOW...You've been going to the WRONG clubs...lol...If I ever went to a club like you have described, I would hate it, TOO...We have NO "trendy nose-in-the-air Barbie doll sluts", NO snobs...NO "musclebound meatheads" most of our guys are very intelligent, talented, and creative in some way or another, SOO many musicians (male AND female)...The music rocks HARD...And our DJs never say a WORD...We just go up to their podiums when we want to request a song, and sometimes they come down and dance with us...

You should come to Cincinnati with your woman...We'll show you how to do it RIGHT ;) :D

Happy Anniversary F.C.
LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!! come on newb, I'm 46 and I say age is irrelevant. I say you and urgeok lose the old ball & chain for the night and all three of us go out and represent the middle aged man. I bet we'll be pulling hot young chicks like dentists in Arkansas pull teeth :D I bet we'd score more tail than the young guns.....we'd be getting laid 30 minutes after we walked in the joint....come on man, get with it!!!!!!!!!!!!! of course there is the odd chance we might end up looking like these 3 guys.....:(

HAHA Drac...If you were at MY clubs, I could hook you up in a heartbeat...Hell, I already have some candidates in mind...heh


And, oh yeah...Happy Anniversary Feral Cat:cool:

lmao...thanks sweetie....I know you'd hook me up REAL good!!! :p

LOL...You could have Becca, she's 19...You could turn her attention away from ME :eek:....Dustin thinks the way she follows me around and hangs all over me, ALWAYS tries to get me to dance with her and shit is awesome...I disagree...It was fun when I was drunk...It's irritating when I'm sober...

And there are MANY other girls...Hmm...Morgana and Jonathan just broke up 2 weeks ago...Morgana is 34, and newly available...lol

This is Morgana:

Morgana kinda looks like the Nanny :D I like it!!!!! :p :D
I might have to make a road trip to Cincy :D :D :D

That's what I been TRYIN' to tell ya!


:D

Of course to a point I agree age is irrelevent. I'm just talking about me in general. If I was to be out in the dating world [ after 26 years I would be totally lost ] I don't think I would be looking for anyone under ....ohh....30 anyway.
But again....thats just me.
But then again....ya never know.

I would thing if Drac, urgeok and myself were to hit the swinging club scenes.....look out....let me tell ya.....whoo yeah.

http://www.alsbar.com/bar_1/web_phot...OldMen_jpg.jpg

As long as she don't sound like the Nanny.

I'll bring earplugs....or just make sure she's doing something with her mouth other than talking!!!!!!! :D I can handle mumbling :D

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLLLLL YUCK

^_^ too bad theres places where that actually happens. i like my young crowd where no ones face is falling

that and im pretty sure any pacemakers or hip implants would set off the metal detectors, right?

Are you making fun of me?

what

ah hem putter screwed up and posted a little early.

woahhhhh weird!

anyway, no im not making fun of u. i mean maybe i am, but i dont really know who you are enough to make fun of you

well thats me in the pick with my "face falling off" as you put it. :mad:

is it really? LOL

actually, i only glanced at the pic, saw only that they were old

but yeh, looking at the face now, it is falling! ^_^. when i get old, im gonna do like all the hollywood stars do and get a face lift

then again, my mom is pretty old but hers isnt falling, i think partly is genes.

what if you face started sagging tomorrow....along with your ass and breasts. whould would you do?WHAT WOULD you do?

thats a very hard question considering it wont happen for a long time..

hmmm, i dunno, if hitting the gym didnt work, id get some plastic done. not even gonna lie.

You depend on your looks that much?

hell yeh. i date some hot ass dudes and i wouldnt get em if i was all ugly pugly, pug ugly, or just plain ugly ugly.

got to be a liar to look at someone for only what is inside them and completely disregarding the outside. me, i want both.

Yeah I too also want both. Wait....nevermind I allready have both :D

^_^ lucky you!!!

Plastic surgery is gross.

not if its done correctly! thats why it works so well in hollywood

well, for the mOST part...

www.awfulplasticsurgery.com

Nah... fuck that shit people should just age gracefully.

yeh, i feel ya. but some people dont age gracefully at all, and thats sad.

Vanity is a weird thing. It can't be good for you having "alterations" done. It must fucking hurt like hell.