Guys are fucking assholes
 

I know, Im not the type to post rants, and you dont have to reply, but I am soooo fucking pissed off and crying and just messed up right now, and you guys are the only ones I can really trust. Its a long story, so you dont have to read it.

Theres this guy that I am really really good friends with named Sam. He is also best friends with my brother. Lately we've been talking about how we have feelings for each other and stuff. So tonight he invites me over.

It starts off completely innocent. We were watching some dumb Dennis Quaid comedy and talking about stuff. Eventually we start holding hands, and I lay my head on his shoulder. Then he whispered to me "Carly, can I kiss you" (probably the most romantic moment of my entire life) I nodded and we made out for like 2 minutes. I then layed my head back on his shoulder, I was really happy but I didnt want to break the really nice silence. He asked me "Whats wrong? Was that weird for you?" and I go "no, not at all Im just thinking" (I could tell you what I was thinking, but thats an even longer story) Then I asked him if it felt weird to him and he goes "Yeah, just the tiniest bit". I dont cry in front of other people, so I just sat there and on the drive home he used the old excuse "It's completely my fault, I hope we can still be friends, and Im so sorry. But I do really like you. Its just that your my best friends little sister".

So I go "Well you know I had feelings for you, so maybe you shouldnt have kissed me if you didnt feel the same way".

Fuck it, I could go on, but I dont want to bore you all. I just needed to rant.

Perhaps because you are so close as friends it did feel a little weird for him. Almost like kissing his sister.
But you are correct...he should have never started anything.

Hrmmmm.

Usually the generalization that ALL guys are assholes gets me thinking about all the nasty shit i have endured from women.

but in this case i guess you have every right to think that way.........

Men are assholes when it comes to uncomfortable silences and all that comes with making out with girls. they (or I) would rather dismiss the fact the feelings were there and go back to being friends rather than deal with all that kinda stuff implies.
obviously this might not be the guy for you .

Its not you. at all. The fact that you are indeed his best friends sister brings a lot of things to mind. like what is my BEST FRIEND gonna say when he finds out. or how much shit am i gonna take for this one and on and on and on.......

dont know if this helped and i know you dont know me but he prolly aint worth feeling that way about if that is his response

Hey orange. Im here for you. If you need to talk to someone i'll be on. Just PM me or something.

Yeah I'm not to sure what I could say to make you feel any better. It's true he shouldn't have started it but then how could he know it was gonna be weird. I dated a "friend" once. Wasn't really weird for me but mabye it was for her since she broke it up. But it's all groovy now she is with one of my other friends.

http://www.uwm.edu/~nmwolter/moe%20thumbs%20up.gif

















Bitch.

Can bet I don't speak to either of them now. But screw all that there's plenty of time later in life. Dealing with college and shit now.

See that orange........"ALL" guys aren't assholes.:D

go ahead and rant

im the type to have no problem with making out with whoever but yeh, if u had feelings that kinda sucks.

well. life goes on, ull like someone else! WOO WOO! or who nkows maybe he will change his mind........\?

god damn im sexXxy

I think MD and HB are much better consolers than I. God I suck. Sorry

Anybody who post a pic of Moe Szyslak to chear someone up doesn't suck.:)

No you guys are all so helpfull. I completely see his point of view. My brother probably wont find out, but I can see why that worries him.

My whole problem is that HE completely and totally initiated everything. and He KNEW that I had feelings for him. I just think he should have thought the whole situation through.

thanks guys.

That could be the problem. Most guys DON'T think when it comes to girls. At least not with their big heads.

Well in that case. With Moe there's always Barney.

http://www.barneygumble.me.uk/bikini.gif

God Damn.....now THATS sexxy.

Ill just say i was relieved when i got to the end of the rant and you had only kissed him. I have known girls that did WAY more way quicker (and younger too, eek...) and hated themselves for years afterwards.

I hate to be the bearere of bad news, but the first couple are usually pretty akward and end up badly. Just stick with it, the good ones are out there.

My first couple of girlfreinds started seeing me because they approached me first, would use a lot of lines that you would usually expect from guys to get close, then get bored after a month or so and dump me, so i know what rejection feels like.

I do see his point, bu, no offense, he is mildly retarded. You are a cool chick (pardon the terminology), be picky ;)

What a shit head! Don't worry Orangestar, there are lots of terrific guys out there. Seems really stupid he would go and tell you that too. :rolleyes:

You definitely deserve better! :)

Too easy :p

Hey...I saw an opening....I went for it.









could probabaly do something with that comment as well.:)

Agreed.....guys are assholes.....but not all guys...

There are a minority of really nice guys out here, but youll never find us.....and no women go out with the nice guys anyway.....

So all the guys that you will probably meet or ever go out with are, indeed, assholes.....

When your meeting your next future x, take a look around at the guys staring at you from afar without the guys to come talk to you.....and leave the next asshole standing there....

Wow, you mean that despite constant "Oh, I'm looking for a nice guy" bullshit, nobody ever actually goes out with them? Good to know. *Punches kittens in their throat*

Exactly.....thats why i started punching kittens a long time ago....much more women that way;)

is it necesarily that some guys or girl r bad? or is it that they r just a bad match?

ive only met 2, maybe 3 guys that were fuckin jerk offs. the rest were nice, not a good match for me, but still nice. different values and things.. thats all

god damn im sexXxy

btw, I came in hoping this would be another anal sex thread. *dissapointed*

Where anal sex goes, dissapointment soon follows:p

As well as poopy on your pee pee.

Only in porn. I mean, really, you're doing it for all of 2 minutes, jerk off (ew) for 20 seconds, jizz on her back/ass hole. I mean, can that be a satisfying finish for ANYBODY? It's worse than facials. At least with facials you don't get shit on your hands.

Seriously, do people actually DO that IRL?

oh dear god...for some reason i found that hilarious...YOU'LL NEVER FIND US...hahaha! sigh...

star, you are young, you are cute. be happy:) but yeah...he sounds like a jerk and i agree with everyone who said he shouldn't have started anything.

Boy is that an understatement

dammit arioch !! infecting yet another innocent with your bitterness !!


fight him, HB ! fight him !! :p

Why should i fight. Its a proven fact. Women only go for looks. Straight up.

and men don't ??

little quote i heard in a movie ( ten points for anyone who can guess it ) - "men learn to love the women they're attracted to and women become more and more attracted to the men they love."

girls and boys, especially at your age, are idiots. and it doesn't get much better as you get older. but eventually, and trust me on this, what goes around comes around. you will end up getting what you deserve, a nice, cute girl who will love you for you.


and besides, you haven't got a problem with looks, luv ;)

HEY...I totally resent that...I'm a woman and looks mean nothing to me...Who wants a good looking asshole?...What about when your 50, you're looks are all gone, then you have absolutely NOTHING left, if all you had was looks in the first place...People who go for looks, usually get nothing BUT looks, and that sucks

True..very true. But some old people still look rather young i suppose. Like Robert Plant. :cool: And thank you hellfire. You helped boost my self confidence :)

Exactly.

maybe it was your breath. you didn't have any garlic or tuna or something did you? and for you calling all men arseholes is sexist and nazish. in my exalted opinion. because i for one is definitely not a arsehole. or ASShole or how ever you might like to put it

You cant tell me that you would even give a 400 lb ugly dood a chance in hell even if he was the cooles guy ever. I know a lot of girls you like Good-Looking Assholes.

But i will agree that looks dont mean EVERYTHING to girls but for you to even have a chance getting a date you have too look decent. but looks are just a bonus. i dont like good looking bitches either .

amen to that brother.... that is so true. errrrrrr thats what my ugly friends tell me anyway. *cough*

lol i know about that first hand man lol i dont have any ugly friends i just have good ole ugly me WHOOT loves it....

True, most men can be assholes. The way I see it is that he should have never even tried a move on you if he didn't have the same feelings that he knew you had for him. Maybe he does feel the same way though. But just doesn't want to admit it because he came feel for you so closely by being your brothers best friend that he feels as though you are his sister as well. Perhaps it just felt strange to him because all the feelings he had for you were coming out, but he didn't know how to control them. How he should've felt. The feeling of relationship meeting the feeling of love as a brother would give a sister. But I could be wrong, but I hope that that cheered you up in some way. I don't know how it would but I still do. I hope everything works out for you.

LOL...It's funny that you specifically said 400 pounds, because I have always said that I didn't care if a guy was 400 pounds, 4 feet tall, bald and toothless...If he TRULY loved me and treated me right, and if I loved him...It wouldn't matter...

Not all guys are assholes...I used to think that, too...Someone will change your mind...The right someone ;)

wow....now you come to mention it, indy racing league is a bit gay.......and they do spend all their time drafting each other..:D