I'm checking into that, too. Only problem is, it'll cost me big-time if I break my lease. Money I don't have.

nowhere anywhere is safe. Obama said recently these "tragedies" are no longer tragedies, just the norm.

damn! American tragedy doesnt exist any more when it has became the norm.

I really dont want to sound like a racist, but every African American I have encountered on my trip has been an unbeleivable piece of shit. About 2am the bus became full and this guy sat next to me and a few minutes later told me his "girl" was sitting up front and wanted me to switch seats with her. I told him no and he got this real cunt attitude. The entire time he and his "girl" were on the bus they didnt even interact even when we would stop.

All the others I have encountered have either ignored me, stared at me or just told me to move or shoved me out of the way. I wonder why so many people stereotype them, hmm...

Whoa! Ya realize we're white people, I mean white Men livin' in a first world country right? I mean we got all the privilages just based on skin color and sex alone....So think what it's like bein' any other color... must be rough...

Gun culture? Shit ...y'all know I live in the outback of Montana right? Time to time ya hear stories 'bout oldtimers who gots crates of guns buried in the mountauns 'round here. Myself I do own a old oneshot 12 gauge, that I bought thru a private sale years ago. I only take out with me when I go campin' ta scare off bears if needed....

Y'all across the pond I can't imagine if only the Fuzz and the Underworld were the only folks who had firearms ....I'm not a gunnut but I know plenty of folks 'round here who are....Really I'm all about peace ..it's a pipedream I know...

Jesus.

First person I suspected as well.

nice sig Angra ::big grin::

I'm going to see Krampus tomorrow!!!! So excited!!!!

I think I'm going on Sunday! I hope you love it, Hammer!

Me too! And I hope you love it!

I'm a bit surprised it actually got decent reviews.

assuming vegas theaters dont charge an assload more to see movies in their theaters I am dead set on seeing Episode 7

i just noticed for some reason Angra and mine's signatures are showing up as the greyhound logo

Christ

You should find out the cause. From research we know the vast number of murders are personal, victim knowing murderer well. If that's the case here, you don't become safer by moving somewhere unfamiliar to you.

You can find out by calling local news reporter, county clerk, possibly police depart.

If it's drug/crime related, then you should be more concerned. Might consider sharing what you find out with landlord, & talk about ideas to make it safer. A Community (apart) Watch group makes a huge difference on crime activity.

I watched Black Friday 2015 videos on YouTube and I will never understand it. Why do people let corporations make them look stupid? People were stampeded, items were being taken from kids, people were fighting each other for items, etc. It's all so fucked up.

::mad::::sad::

ppl do that themselves

(Wolf Whistle!!)

You like em boney and blonde, DBT?::wink::

Ya know what they say...Dead girls don't say no....

Feels like forever since I've been on... Been kind of drifting away lately. Fucking hate winter. Makes me feel like a zombie. I might be getting some new VHS tapes soon though, so that's brought me back to life a little bit.

and they put up the least amount of struggle

I will be in Vegas in about 4 hours. I should bang a hooker while I am there

We miss you when you're not here ::sad::

Roif, I went through the same thing back in October, thought I lost my horror "mo jo". Its coming back. Hammer's right, you're missed but we'll wait it out with you!

Tell me about it I'd never understand it either.

Just love you guys. Winter blues hits me like a sack of bricks, so I crawl under the covers and binge Monty Python tapes on my tv and comedy on Netflix to keep my spirits up. It does its job but I miss the horror.

That video more than the song = ::love::

Guess it depends on where you were. Our shopping trip was kind of quiet, no place was too packed, and it was a lot of fun. Oddly enough I think it's the first time I didn't buy anything... except for some baby clothes (buy 1 get 2 free was too good to pass up).

A majority of those videos are faked for comedy. I'm sure there are some stores that are utter mayhem, but a lot of those videos aren't real. I've gone to black Friday at walmart and yeah, there were people camped out there but people weren't getting trampled or things stolen from them.

You guys obviously don't live in Detroit.

Hang in there Roiff!! Get out in nature, sing, sew, build, draw, what ever it is that helps ya shake them blues...either that or drinkin' top shelf tequila helps too....

Y'all think those Bfriday vids are fake?!!? No way man look around.... We are constantly bombarded with advertising pitchin' illusionary wealth and material obsession...

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My random thought of the day is that if you ask a girl out to hang out with your friends. And the friends like the girl... Why is that a bad thing??? And then the guy gets all freaked out and tells you that he doesn't want a serious relationship::roll eyes::
I'm sorry Asshat I didn't realize that I asked you to be in a relationship in the first place? I thought we were just hanging out. I didn't ask you to marry me or to make plans to buy a freaking house or something!::mad::

I am here and thuss far I love it!

Maybe you're just letting off stream; but in case you're looking for feedback, I think we're missing some things.

1. Why do you think his friends liked you? And what happened that make you think your BF didn't like that? (we'll just call him BF) This sounds like the source of an issue; good to examine.

2. what happened -- immediately before -- him saying he doesn't want a serious relationship? (specifically in the conversation)

It's unlikely a guy would invite you out with his friends with the intention of telling you he doesn't want a serious relationship. (If he was looking for hookup, the invite would be 1on1) I would have to assume something occurred to initiate him saying that. And I'm certainly not suggesting you "did something wrong"; but we might be able to give you some insight on the male psyche, maybe specifically in the group dynamic.

Well, he took me to hang out at his friend's house. A couple's house. And his female friend said that she was really overprotective of him because he was like a brother to her. And that he never brought girls over. At the end of the night before we left she wanted to exchange numbers so that we could all hang out on new years. So she was making plans for us. And I just said ok. I did not make any plans with her involving any of us. I also should add that he has a son. He's only like 5. And she was involving him.
I do not have kids. Not that that really matters I guess. But the fact that he does matters. So maybe he got freaked out by that.
But I never tried to push anything on him at all.

Sounds like a tool.....no loss

And that is recommendation from " Relationships With Newb"

No charge

I mean as far as the conversation went regarding him not wanting to be in a relationship... He was talking about how long it's been for him being with somebody. And I agreed for myself. I mean I'm really careful about those things. I do not just do random hook ups.

haha. omg that's awesome ::big grin::

That being the case, I assume you had told him the woman asked to make plans for New Years, and not you. There's a chance he didn't like you "appearing" to make plans for both of you without talking to him first. That's not unusual for anyone. It's the "appearance" that counts, cause that's all he has. When she asked you to come to New Years, of course, you could have said, (or may have said) "I'd like to, if BF is OK with it. I don't know what he has in mind." But I don't think it's a big issue.

OK, got ya. That being the case, I wouldn't look too far into it. I mean, really, could he mean he never wants to marry again? I doubt it. People change their minds about "getting serious" really fast.

If you needed to know, you could ask him to explain what he means by it... but, I'd suggest, the fact that he SAID it to you, it likely means he's open to dating other people (even if he doesn't act on it)... meaning, he's not centering in on you.

So, I'd recommend to you what I'd generally recommend to anyone who is not in a spoken exclusive relationship: date other people. I'm not saying tell him you're dating others. I'm saying don't talk about dating others, and really date other people. Because unless he's trying to manipulate you, he's telling you he's not "all-in" on you, which is a milder form of "not that in to you".

Not that you would, but don't respond to what he said with a competitive instinct, to "make him" all-in. Just get to know him as a friend and date other people.