LOL@Vodstok's Disclaimer :-)

Hey, I am usually the type that just lets things fall where they may, let those who get it laugh and those who dont can get as pissed as they want, but given the subject matter here and that this was an otherwise pretty serious thread, i figured a little ass-covering was in order. :)

LOL@Vodstok's Disclaimer's Disclaimer :) :) :)

:D I can keep this up all day :)



I wrote the second disclaimer because i didnt want anyone thinking i had gone soft, but that my sense of humor has some limits due to sensitivity. I'm not a pure asshole :)

I agree...naturally this is how any woman would think or think to act in this situation. However, knowing that he was the one that messed up should motivate you in knowing he's not worth yout time and you deserve better. While you acknowledge his lost, beat him up with kindness. Make him be the one begging and pleading leaving countless voicemails and emails on your cellphone. Make him beg and plead for your forgiveness. You need your time to emotionally heal, but don't let it get to the point where you depreciate yourself. As time moves on, your heart will too. Optimism is key. Think positive and stay positive. Mr Right Now isn't neccessarily Mr. Right forever.