oh yeah - and tell Dustin we're still discussing it because we are bound by the restrictions of the physical limitations of an internet forum board.

if we were all in a pub somewhere talking - it'd be done by now -

its a lot faster for people to talk, listen to the other persons response - add to your own point - repeat.

its a much slower process in here :)

But...What about love?...If you love someone, don't you always want them, no matter what?...Isn't it that love that keeps the attraction going?...

Think of it this way...If a person gets wrinkled or fat, you would no longer consider them sexy or attractive...But, how is it any different than if they were in a fire or car wreck and were disfigured?...Wouldn't you still love them?...Wouldn't you still want them and be attracted to them BECAUSE of the person that they STILL are, no matter what, inside...Where it really counts?...I honestly won't care if Dustin gets wrinkled...and I ALREADY made him fat...lol...It seriously hasn't changed one ounce of his sexiness...It's in his voice...It's in his eyes...It's in his manner...It's in the way he holds me, treats me, loves me...And he's absolutely AMAZING in bed (I know that's TMI, but it's relevant to my point), and isn't 'sex' what 'sexy' is all about?...I can't imagine him losing his skill, his tenderness (when I need that), his roughness (when I need that), his willingness and eagerness to try anything...It has nothing to do with the way he looks...It has so much more to do with the way he looks AT ME...And I honestly can't imagine that changing


OH...And I never gave a SHIT about money...Otherwise, Dustin and I would have never hooked up in the first place...lol

Damn...Isn't THAT the truth? :)

For what it's worth, I never thought this was a gay issue. Transvestism does not equal homosexuality. Entity2000 mentioned the thing with the kids, which I thought was worthy of addressing in my earlier post.

And of course I would support my children no matter what. I certainly didn't intend to imply otherwise. I would just be afraid for them. Having to deal with constant prejudice is not easy. Thing have progressed immensely in this regard but I don't think that anyone can argue that ignorance and gay-bashing don't still exist.

Just wanted to clear things up a bit.

he may lose his energy - and the thought of rebreaking that hip that got shattered on that fall on the ice back in 2020 might become a concern too ..


as far as the accident disfigurement example... i dunno ..and i hope i never have to find out for a variety of reasons..

its understandable - but depending on where you live - things have come a long way.
(legal gay marriages in canada)

I know, and I wish that folks in the States could follow the example that the Canadians set. Unfortunately, that may not happen for some time, if ever. There are many places in this country that are still very conservative and religious.

That IS definitely something to consider...But, by that time, do people still think about sex so much?...HaHa...I just got a hilarious mental image...lol


I honestly believe that you'd still love your wife no matter what...

And...Love keeps the fire burning...Even if we get too old to stoke the flame very high...Smoldering can be nice at times, too...Still warm, and comforting...A soft glow at twilight has just as many rewards as a blazing fire in the evening :)

i think the sex drive diminishes for most people as they get a lot older ..
i imagine the better shape you keep yourself in - the longer you'll have it.

remember not everyone has a strong sex drive when they arent young ..
the more vibrant you are in your youth - the longer you'll be able to sustain - (health issues may impact that ..)

but dont assume because you, me and a few others that are vocal about it have strong drives - that everyone else does ..(hard to imagine - i know)

if you never had a strong sex drive - you certainly wont at all when you're older

I gyuess its hard for me to have an much of an opinion on this, unless it was an issue with someone i know.Thinking about some stranger doing this i could care less,if my brother was to do this i think i'd be a little less open-minded.