2 years + = nothing.

Thats not long at all. Usually things go wrong after 3.


Dont take it. Im kool with that.

But if she felt the same way, dont u think something would have happened? a kiss?..a few side comments?

If anything, dont even talk about it....that makes things awkward. Even if she does feel the same way....it might not be easy to talk about. You might just put her on the spot.


If anything, if you ever come across a romantic moment with her (DONT PLAN IT)....just go with the flow and dive in with a kiss. Thats the real test....that will show u where she stands...(a sweet kiss)

Let it happen gradually....after that..she will want to talk about it...or she might tell u where she stands on the spot.

dont take my advise...im just tossing in my 2 cents.

Ummmm....Two years is a long time. My longest was 2 months. My parents got engaged after two years. They've been together 28 years.

Ok Heres The Problem
 

If you don't tell her then all your doing is torturing yourself. Right now your in a safe place & its comfortable but its not going to last. Eventually your friend is going to get a boyfriend. You'll think, "I'll out last this guy." Its possible you already have & thats great but what happens when you don't?
If you tell her how you feel then theres the rejection but at least your not hanging & hoping for something to happen. I've been in the friendship department. With my current girlfriend that lasted a total of a week. I could have waited & played all of the friendship game stuff but I have way more respect for her then that. At the moment your in hell & torturing yourself but rejection is better because you know where you stand & can move on. Believe me just tell her & move on. Perhaps it might work out. Who knows until you try.

Wait I'm confused (easily done), is the girl you're presently talking about the same person that you said was engaged?