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I had the Playgirl issue that he posed in....he looks even better with his clothes off.
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Holy Crap! Yah, he'll do. I bet he does look excellent with nothing on! Or actually what I think is even sexier, is no shirt, and jeans on, but unzipped and pulled open with a nice tease of, well...pubies. (sorry, there just isn't another word that describes it!)
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So I've been told and shown way more than warranted. I admit it was funny the first couple of times...''Hey, look there's an article about the Super Bowl.'', but at some point enough is enough. |
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LOL he trims, which is better IMO....bald male genitalia is kind of funny lookin...
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Let's just say, smooth shaven skin is MUCH better for things other than 'looking' at it... :) |
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Very funny, I didn't care to look that long or low so I wouldn't know. Article about the Super Bowl in the middle of the summer, how the hell did i go for that. |
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And shaved is great, until it starts growing out...then it turns into Brillo pad city. Women shaved is one thing, but I've had bad experiences with men who shave their crotches. |
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Heh...All the talk about how some women are attracted to the 'bad boy' reminds me of my ex girlfriend. Found out that she had been cheating on me...A friend saw her and the dude kissing and groping each other at this restruant and called me. So I popped over and slid into the booth with them, and calmly and politely told her she was a deciteful bitch, I was done with her skank ass and that her stuff was in boxes in front of her EX place of residence so she better hurry to get them before the rain completely destroys them. Hell, I even shook the dude's hand and told him good luck with the cheating fuck and oh yeah, the cheesecake there was awesome and I left them sitting there stunned.
The next day she's banging on my door like a lunatic, so I go to one of the upstairs windows and ask her how I could help her. She goes into this tirade about how I've got to be bi-polar or something because she started cheating on me because I was 'too nice' and now I was acting like a souless bastard. So she screams at me for like ten minutes while I'm sitting there looking down on her while eating Doritos, nodding and looking like I actually gave a shit what she was saying, I guess for the benefit of my neighbors that were looking at the spectacle. Then she flipped the script and went from screaming to crying, something I can't stand. Like a idiot I felt sorry for her and let her in. She's crying, like a sucker I'm consoling her, then hugging her, and then the kissing starts and well...You can guess what happens from there, right? So afterwards, she tells me that she'll be a better girlfriend, she'll be faithful and stuff, and she tells me that now we're back together, she's gonna go get her stuff from her mom's and move it back in, and I say OK, right? Then something nags me and I call her mom and ask her if her daughter's been by to pick up her stuff. She tells me my ex never brought her stuff over, she spent the night with her friend Eric. Well after that, I calmly call my ex and sweetly ask was she at where she was going yet, and she says not yet, she was almost there. I tell her that when she gets there, get comfortable, because like she fucked me over by cheating, she just got fucked over because we were still over and she's Eric's trouble now. So she starts telling me she never loved me, she needed someone that wasn't so nice, that could be a real man, blah blah blah. Eventually I told her, in a kind way mind you, to go fuck herself, have a nice life, drive safely and hung up. Skip forward two months later...I get a call from the hospital that she's was in the ER and I was listed as her emergency contact. They won't tell me what's wrong over the phone and I'm curious so I go to see her. Turns out she and her bad boy got into an arguement that escalated into a fist fight and he worked her over pretty hard, blacking her eye, bruising her ribs, and dislocating her shoulder. She tells me her story, then we have a deep, meaningful moment of silence. I look at her, she looks at me, and then I say that its a pretty shitty thing to cheat on me and tell me she never loved me, but then calling me when the guy she cheated on me with decides to slap her around like a cheap fuck on a bad saturday night is just nuts. She starts crying again and ask what she was supposed to do, so I tell her I don't know, but next time she better learn to duck and weave, good luck with her 'real man', and peace out. I'm a nice guy, but once you screw me over, I'm a vindictive, vengeful nice guy. :D |
It's the HAIR, only the long hair (well, for me anyway). Not the bad boy thing. Cripes if I could find a nice guy with long beautiful hair, I'd be in heaven. Does the musician I posted a pic of look like a "bad guy"? and I'd want an Otis to clean up his act and get a job. :) Pretty funny actually, since he wouldn't be Otis anymore if he did those things. I guess what I'm trying to say is, if you're a nice guy, DON'T STOP! Just grow your hair out. Hehe, j/k, sort of. Unfortunatly, nice people, girls and guys, are usually the ones that end up getting treated like a doormat. Trust me, I know. But that doesn't mean you should stop being a nice person.
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wow Someone dug up one of my old threads.. I guess Long blac or blonde hair... I usualy Date emo girls and goths if you can call them that.
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A mature one... A Monica Bellucci type of woman..
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Seriously though...Dustin is the complete opposite of my ex (guess that means I learned what to look out for too, huh?)...My ex was the epitome of 'asshole' (read about Leo, take out the worst traits, multiply them by 100, and you have MET my ex...)..He was a union pipefitter/construction worker, drinker, who loved to pick fights with people (I still have the old truck with the 'man's head-sized' dent in the side of it)...BUT...He makes decent money ($1,200-$1,500 a week)...So, whenever there was a problem, that was the ONLY thing he could say, "I make good money, I work hard..." never even realizing that money didn't mean SHIT to me, and it was ALL he had......He didn't however mention that he spent MOST of that money on himself, while telling me that I needed to "cut down on the bills"...You know, all those frivilous things like electricity, water, telephone, shit like that:rolleyes: Anyway..I'm, not gonna go on and on (I could), because you guys already know EXACTLY what kind of person I'm talking about...Oh, and he always keeps his hair very short ;p...lol Dustin, on the other hand, is completely different....He never starts shit with anyone, he can't stand it when people argue, he'll not only leave the ROOM, he'll even leave the FLOOR (goes upstairs), if not the HOUSE... He doesn't even allow my ex to push him into conflict, and he is very sensitive (which I love, except sometimes he's TOO sensitive, he takes things I say the wrong way, and I hurt his feelings on accident. It makes me feel terrible that he thinks I would WANT to hurt his feelings...But, I wanted a sweet, peaceful guy, I just have to try to be more 'gentle' with him ;)) He only makes about 35% of what my ex made, but he makes sure that all of the bills are paid, and everyone's taken care of, before we do anything else...And most of our 'wasted money' is what's spent on going out to eat with the kids, and horror movies:D He also plays death metal (killer drums, guitar and bass!), and has long black hair:cool:...AND...He makes me feel shallow, because there are so many times that I look at him, and I can't keep from thinking (and then telling him), that he is so mother fucking sexy!!!...I swear, sometimes I think maybe I should smash in his face with a crowbar, or cut off his tongue and gouge out those deep, smoldering, blue eyes...Maybe cripple him or something...Just so I'll feel better about myself:D...Because it's what's on the INSIDE that counts...DAMMIT!!!!! That whole 'chicks only go for the 'bad boy' things is bullshit.....It translates to 'Stupid chicks don't know any better, they go for looks, money, and/or a big dick, not understanding that when this is ALL they look for, it's all they usually GET, with an asshole attached'...The 'assholes' knowing that stupid bitches look for those things, figure they don't need anything else to attract a chick, so they can treat them like shit...And, they are usually right, it's pretty damned disgusting And...Sometimes...The guy pretends to be a 'nice guy', just long enough to get the chick, only showing his true self when it's difficult for her to get away (ie: love, marriage, kids, etcetera) and the chick who THOUGHT she had a nice guy, ends up with an asshole, and the stereotype that 'chicks go for the 'bad boy' Okay, I'm gonna stop now...That should be enough information to make the point I was trying to make...I'm pretty sure ya got it :) Yes, the game is complicated...I got tired of playing it... |
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Wanna go out? :) Seriously... That is one of the best stories that I have read in a long time. It takes a lot of guts and a lot of nerves to keep people from fucking you over no matter what they do. She cheated on you. You said, "Nice life." You actually gave her a second chance. She lied again. When this dude turned out to be a real piece of shit, you actually had the balls to say that it was no longer your responsibility to deal with her life, because she "never loved you." Very few people have that kind of power. I applaud you. In truth, you may have done her more of a favor than kissing her ass. You should do siminars or something. I'm still looking for my own personal Gomez Adams... that type of man would be perfect for me: devoted, eccentric, accepting and adoring of the facting that I'm not only a Witch but a little...nutters, supportive, and into kinky and dark sex. |
i think i would be my own fantasy perfect boy or girl . . . if only i could stay faithful to me.
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I agree with on on the "Nice guys finish last" line. That's such bullshit. I'm with you on Otis too - if he could just lose the homicidal maniac thing, he's one I sure wouldn't toss out of bed for eating crackers! :D |
what an interesting thread....
I go for traditional tall, dark, and handsome. I like boys skinnier rather than muscular. I like boys who can drink with me, but are not abusive alcoholics. I'm not picky. The only real necessity that I look for is nice teeth. I'll date anyone with nice teeth. |
This is a great thread! I like the dramatic stories and the relaxed stories mixed together....it takes all kinds of stories........'s all good
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Eccentric? Double check. Accepting and adoring about being a witch and slightly nutters? I can work with the witchiness (its a word now) and I like peanuts and cashews, so sure. Check. Supportive? Check? Into kinky and dark sex? OK, now you're just teasing me... :p Heh, but seriously...Thanks for the compliment. I seriously do not get off on being cold and perhaps slightly callous, but I hate getting fucked over, especially because I treated someone with love and respect. A seminar, eh? I can see me pacing the stage ala Tony Robinson... "Friends! You are special! Tell me, when you looked in the mirror this morning, did you see 'fuck me over, please!' on your forehead? When you put on your pants or your skirt or whatever, did you see 'Welcome' on your ass like a doormat? Of course not! You are special! You matter! You don't have to take the crap they keep handing out! I can help you!!! Now, if you'll look to the back, you'll see my display table for the books, tapes, cds and dvds you'll need for me to help you...Cash and plastic, checks only with 2 pieces of ID, please..." HA! :D Oh, and as a foot note to my earlier post, a mutal friend of my ex and I called today. After I told her how funny it was she would call agter I just started thinking about my ex afyer so long, she told me how my ex was doing, but it wasn't pretty. It would seem that she went back to the guy, and more fights ensued, which led to more hospital visits. She refused to press charges or even call the police...Others had to do it. Her nose has been broken multiple times, and she's had her jaw wired after a particularly bad beating. The really sad part is that after all the injuries, she's gotten hooked on painkillers pretty badly. So tell me...Am I insane that even after what she did to me, I not only feel sorry for her, but wonder if I could've prevented it? |
We all make our own beds, so to speak. I don't think that it's something that you should agonize over. She chose this person over you. You can't make her decisions for her.
However it is very very sad that she is in the situation that she is. The more she allows him to hurt her both phyically and emotionally, the harder it will be for her to extricate herself from the situation. Also, she's creating a pattern for herself... the "cycle of abuse" pattern. In other words, she's going to start associating love, attention, and affection with abuse, pain, and torment. This in not your fault, nor is there anything you can do about it. She's got to find the courage to get away, far away, from him, get a restraining order, and get some counseling. Her friend is the link she needs. That's the only way that you can help her. Tell her friend to get her out of there. Were I you, I wouldn't become involved. Old feelings might get stirred up. It would get ugly for both of you really fast, plus you don't need Mr. Clinically Antisocial breathing down your neck. You can't afford to get involved, and I think it would do more harm than good for both of you. I just hope with all my heart, no matter what a bitch she was to you, that she gets help and gets out before he kills her. No woman deserves that kind of shit. I'm going to PM you. |
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Yay! Someone else that says that! Cool! :D |
and another one, sorry about the small picture....
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Do you know her family and/or friends? Are they trustworthy? If yes to both questions, you might want to talk to them about it and make sure they know about it. Unfortunatly, she probably isn't really going to listen to anybody, we as humans are stubborm by nature (I think) and have to learn our own lessons. But considering the danger she seems to be in, I think a talk with the people you know care about her, might not be a bad thing. And that all depends on your rapport with those people. Not an easy situation. Just watch out for yourself first, no matter how difficult that may be. Keep us in the loop, we're weird but we're not stupid (don't mean to generalize, but I think most people would agreed with that). |
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Yeah, I know...fairly pathetic, but there it is. I guess it would probably be better to get someone else to help her and keep my distance, but she seems to have alienated pretty much all the mutal friends we shared and now hangs mostly with the guy who beats her. As for her family, I hear they've pretty much written her off. I'm considering calling her mom and seeing if she knows what kind shit her daughter's in and just how deep. Dunno what good it'll do, but at least its something. Anyways, thanks for letting me vent, guys, and thanks for the advice. I know its not quite on topic, so let me get on topic... My Fantasy Woman She should be honest, have a sense of humor, be willing to try new things, prefers the night over the day, doesn't always have to 'get me' but at least be willing to try, willing to say what she wants and doesn't feel the need to play games or expect me to read her mind, believes in compromise, respects things I feel strongly about even if she disagrees, doesn't get off on fighting with me, not emotionally manipulative, actually believes in and practice smonogamy, intelligent, sharp wit, compassionate, caring, loving and be willing to give as much to make a relationship work as me. Oh yeah, knowing how to cook in the kitchen and how to work it in the bedroom (or where ever!) would be a huge bonus... :D |
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As for the other stuff you wrote, whataya trying to get all us horror women into a cat fight over you? Hehehe, j/k Seriously, you sound lke a sweetheart, and I hope you find what you're looking for. Hell, I hope I find what I'm looking for. why can't life just be easy??? ...later... I just watched Devil's Rejects again. This may sound weird (who, me?) but does anyone else get, like, soothed or relaxed from that movie, or am I nuts? It has a great soundtrack and of course, Otis. But I actually get relaxed watching it. Ah well, whatever works, right? |
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But seriously, thanks. I've always noticed that its easier for someone more then likely hundreds of miles away to notice how great a person you are then it is for someone right in front of you. Go figure. And life is easy...Its just the abundance of assholes we meet determined to make it difficult. Whoa...That was almost deep. I keep this up, people might expect more... :p Quote:
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female, 5'6, chiseled features, black hair (preferably italian/spanish) doe eyes, b-cup, athletic, apple ass, tan, goofy, cultured, intelligent, fashionable, loves horror movies... is that too much to ask?
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Sounds like you should move to California.
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that's out of the question. i love the east coast. i can cross-off the tan part (that's a little picky). i don't mind pale girls, ie: Brody Armstrong = hot, but prefer a little color, a little spice.
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LOL then how about south Florida? I've vacationed there a few times, and you're describing about half the female population....
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living in atl. leaves that option open :rolleyes:
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Now I understand everything.:rolleyes:
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This is a beautiful specimen of a man.
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